Meet the kids

[brum]

I agree mostly with daizie's view and I also think that emc is right to be cautious about introducing someone into the kid's life as your 'partner' unless the relationship is serious.

[karter]

brum Wrote:

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> I agree mostly with daizie's view and I also think

> that emc is right to be cautious about introducing

> someone into the kid's life as your 'partner'

> unless the relationship is serious.

It also may depend if the kid is a toddler or an adult i would say.

[daizie]

Well, in my opinion, putting such emphasis on someone is always going to be a mistake/letdown. I actually think its better for the kids to come across people earlier rather than later in a casual way, gets them used to the realities of life. Teachers change each year, friends come and go, get over it .

[brum]

I actually agree with you daizie - I'm just making the point that its different if you introduce someone to your kids as your 'partner' straight away, without doing the casual 'getting-to-know-you' routine first.

[daizie]

In my experience, it is the parents that make such a big deal, that end up with the most fcuked up kids .