I Kissed a girl

[LuvPeckham]

I kissed a girl and I liked it

The taste of her cherry chap stick

I kissed a girl just to try it

I hope my boyfriend don't mind it

It felt so wrong

It felt so right

Don't mean I'm in love tonight

I kissed a girl and I liked it

I liked it

absolutly no reason at all for this post except to ask why Katy Perry doesn't live in East Dulwich ?

[KalamityKel]

Prob knew u lived nearby :p

[LuvPeckham]

Meooow

Waiter can I have a Saucer of Milk for KalamityKitty ;-)

However if Katy Perry did live in ED, just imagine the next ED Drinks ....

[KalamityKel]

:-$ Sorry LuvPeckham... twas nowt more that an fit of jealousy :p

[jumpinjackflash]

who's Katy Perry?

[KalamityKel]

Some bird

[jumpinjackflash]

Just googled her - she looks like a cross between Lily Allen and the little girl from the Addams Family.

[KalamityKel]

I assume its the seductive yet shy and cheeky look that does it for LuvPeckham...

[david_carnell]

It does it for all of us....

....it's always the quiet ones, Kel!

[KalamityKel]

*makes note of that*

[Huguenot]

How peculiar.

Do I start a thread entitled 'things that make Huguenot horny, discuss?'. Or do we know each other so well now that we share those self-indulgent moments?

This probably isn't the right thread, but it does remind me of an unresolved question from the homphobic/racism thread. How do the guys who abuse people for being gay know?

I mean, I don't give any overt clues to my sexuality. You wouldn't have Scooby.

I remember an earlier thread where someone wanted a gay bar in ED so that gay peeps could do their thing without fear of oppression. Having pointed out that gay people are hardly oppressed in ED bars, it became clear that what was sought was more of a singles club where people can 'openly' demonstrate their indulgences.

Clearly I'm old fashioned, but I'm not sure that my sexuality should be my identity. I don't french kiss in pubs.

With all hugs and kisses to LP, why would we post this video? Have we all gone a bit Finbarr Saunders?

Have we reached the point where running down Lordship Lane crying 'I like lacy red panties' is a valid comment on our contribution to society? We might like plum jam and blue duvets too, so why do we particularly want to shout about what makes us hot?

I assume that there's a certain thrill to discussing sex, as it's breaking a social taboo. A bit like playing the 'penis' game in supermarkets (who can say the word loud enough to draw a stare whilst retaining deniability?).

Is that what this video is... 'look at me I posted a sexy thing'?

Hmph, call me Mr. Gradgrind, but it all seems a bit playground.

[KalamityKel]

Huguenot I think you've answered ur own q there me dear... surely if everything else can be discussed or started as a thread then y not have a thread like this eh? *shrugs shoulders*

[Bellenden Belle]

In response to the question of how people would know a person is gay and your reference to not giving anyone "overt clues" to your sexuality.... well, I often see heterosexual couples who I know immediately are together despite their lack of french kissing action...affection is a wonderful thing to see in public - hands held, an arm around the waist and goddamnit a stolen kiss does not have to mean revealing your red lacy pants on Lordship Lane. There is a huge difference between the exhibitionist behaviour you describe and those small every day identifiers that every one should feel comfortable making.

And I do think our sexuality is a part of our identity... our drive to find a mate, to be understood fully, to be accepted....these are all linked to sexuality. And for those young people discovering their sexuality in their teens or indeed younger the emotions felt - of isolation, fear of rejection, confusion - surely have an impact on a person's sense of self? I don't know if it's easier nowadays but certainly it wasn't easy for my friends growing up in the 60s and 70s.

And let's not forget many homophobic attacks and much school bullying is based on no evidence at all ....just assumption and finger pointing.

[Huguenot]

For sure lol, but that video ain't nothing to do with being understood or accepted is it?

It looks suspiciously like a brothel and squirming sexually available types? I don't want to sound like Grandad, but 'it felt so wrong, it felt so right' sounds a bit like 'no means yes' or 'do what you want and bugger the consequences'??

If you reckon that's a bright idea to coach fourteen year old's with, then I'm scratching my head.

I find it rather tawdry.

[Bellenden Belle]

Is 'I kissed a girl' a video? Is Katy Perry a pop star...I haven't googled her (too early in the morning to risk getting that excited)...so was merely responding to your other comments Huguenot. Oh dear I need to return to the Old Fogeys thread.

[KalamityKel]

:-s dont think LuvPeckham intended this thread to be the kind of debate you're turning it into

[Bellenden Belle]

Good point KK - my apologies.... mmmm, what can I possibly say? It's summer, tis the time to be frisky, boy, girl, frog....I say kiss whatever you can get your mitts on!

And clearly more boys should wear cherry lip balm...

[SeanMacGabhann]

It's all about the Carmac in the MacGabhann house BB..

[Bellenden Belle]

Is Carmac a brand of lip balm? Really, I don't know, I can't read a single sentence nowadays without the need for a google.

[david_carnell]

Carmac (according to google is a waste management company....

Carmex on the other hand is a lipbalm. God, sean, what sort of metrosexual are you?!

[Brendan]

Isn't it a place in Egypt?

[mightyroar]

i think he means Caramac (confectionary) and that cartoon bunny who ate it very sexily in the ad.

I agree with Huguenot totally on this one.

I kissed a girl......who gives a fkuc?

[KalamityKel]

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[SeanMacGabhann]

it is lip balm (I'd swear it is Carmac) - BUT IT TASTES OF CARAMEL!

What's not to like??

Oh, I kissed a girl once as well...

[KalamityKel]

me too ;-)