hellosailor Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 My friend was walking up wood vale with her 10 year old son at 8:45 tonight when out of the blue a young man started shouting at them and then grabbed her by the neck and startled strangling her with significant force. Her son ran away to try to get help and after a few seconds the man loosened his grip to take a deep breath himself and my friend managed to get out of his grip. She describes him as in his 20s, black, in a tracksuit and well presented, wearing a black cap and with a black AirPod in one ear. He didn?t smell of booze or obviously present as being under the influence of anything substance wise and it was totally random seemingly. She has called the police who aren?t particularly interested and say they will send someone round in due course to take a statement. She asked me to post to warn others to be vigilant. Thanks Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zig-Zag Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 Poor woman and youngster.Hoeendous experience. Appalled by the police response! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517164 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkey Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 Thank you for the warning and lots of love to your friend - she might want to take photos of her bruises etc if any. You could also ask neighbours if they have door bell or security cameras. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517166 Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsBoris Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 Hi Yes I walking along Wood Vale with my son and a man who was walking towards me, out of nowhere tried to smash my head against a garden wall and then proceeded to strangle me quite violently. My son was with me and is traumatised. This happened at around 8:45pm this evening. He was in his 20s, wearing grey tracksuit, black cap, ear pod, black and about 5?7.I have called the police but I am still waiting for them to come round. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517169 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Countrlass22 Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 What thats awful do sad hear this,hope they come round soon thats a very serious attack please do get medical attention. Via seldoc for possible concussion evidence of attack plus any symtpoms suffering. Pray hes caught soon very soon Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517170 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkey Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 Hi Mrs Boris, I hope you and your son are feeling okay this morning. I?m so sorry for what?s happened. Agree with other posters that it might be good to call Seldoc. As for the police, I hope they?re on the case now. If not, I wouldn?t hesitate to call back and hurry them along. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517175 Share on other sites More sharing options...
first mate Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 What a terrifying experience, I hope you and your son are offered some sort of support.I wonder if the Safer Neighbourhood Team are aware? Your attacker will still be at large, which is a concern. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517181 Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsBoris Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 Thank you, yes I have spoken to a SELDOC who advised me to call police back so forensics can document the bruising on my neck and nail marks.. I?ve called the police 4 times now and they are sending an officer around on Monday. This guy came out of nowhere and tried to strangle which with considerable force in font of my son. He didn?t even speak to me he just started strangling me in the street. Does anyone know how I contact the safer neighbourhoods team - it?s the Dulwich Hill one I think. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517216 Share on other sites More sharing options...
IlonaM Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 It must have been terrifying for you both. Maybe contact Victim Support as well? [www.victimsupport.org.uk/more-us/contact-us/]Email contact for Dulwich Hill SNT: [email protected]TeL: 02087212447 Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517221 Share on other sites More sharing options...
jazzer Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 Really sorry to hear of this horrendous attack, whereabouts on Woodvale did this occur? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517222 Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsBoris Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 Near the junction with Melford road Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517224 Share on other sites More sharing options...
first mate Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 Given this was in broad daylight, the hope is one of the houses nearby has CCTV that might reveal an ID for this man? It is hoped the police or SNT will knock on doors and ask if anyone that has CCTV on that street, or nearby, to check to see if there is footage on that day around that time to match the description? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517227 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Countrlass22 Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 Well done shameful you shouldn't need phone police 4 times though.OK Monday ,but are you OK any sign concussion dizziness headache unusually sleepy,confused please get seen.Take care hunni and your son such awful unprovoked attack.Thinking of you Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517231 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dogkennelhillbilly Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 That is awful and totally unacceptable that cops had to be called 4 times. I understand there's a huge number of cops in Cornwall standing around protecting Joe Biden and ensuring protestors only exercise their free speech rights many miles from anyone powerful. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517234 Share on other sites More sharing options...
alice Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 There was a major police event in east dulwich road yesterday evening - maybe that was prioritised Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517244 Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomskip Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 I would actually go to the press with that disgusting police response. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517248 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Penguin68 Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 The Met is the responsibility of the Home Secretary, which makes this a Parliamentary matter. I would write to Helen Hayes about this, to ask the Home Secretary a PQ. Helen Hayes is very responsive to constituents' concerns.This was a physical attack and (as the medics said) evidence of the assault with be disappearing over time. If only the attacker had said something racist, sexist or homophobic it would be a hate crime, and they'd have been round like a shot. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517252 Share on other sites More sharing options...
alice Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 With all the police cuts hard decisions have to be made. This crime, horrid tho it is, seems to have finished and the person was no longer in danger. An ongoing crime would take precedence. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517260 Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsBoris Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 Thank you everyone. What I?m struggling with in regards to the Police response is that he tried to strangle me quite violently and didn?t care I had a child with me. Strangling someone is a very specific and worrying form of violence and when I first called the Police I could still see him on Wood Vale causally carrying on walking Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517261 Share on other sites More sharing options...
IlonaM Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 I agree with Penguin68 - contact Helen Hayes and mark it urgent: [email protected] - I've found her to be responsive to issues I have raised; yours being rather more pressing than mine.Also, maybe get in touch with Inspector Tom Cornish | Neighbourhood Policing | Southwark | AS BCU | Peckham Police Station, 177 Peckham High Street, London, SE15 5SL tel: 0207 232 6495 | internal: 726495 mobile: 07917 133162 Twitter: @InspTomCornish Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517273 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monkey Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 One would have that after Sarah Everard, the police would have learnt their lesson? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517278 Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellosailor Posted June 12, 2021 Author Share Posted June 12, 2021 Although luckily my friend was able to escape and was no longer in imminent danger, the next person he strangles may not escape. It most certainly is a cause for concern that a man with a compulsion to strangle a woman walking in daylight with her child is not being sought by the police. It wasn?t an attempted mugging or a mobile phone theft, he tried to strangle her so forcefully that she has bruises on her neck and burst capillaries and fingernail marks, photographs of which should be being taken by the police but are not. It may be that he is on some substance that makes him have violent impulses, it may be that he has mental health issues or it may be that he has a sexual urge that impels him to strangle passers by but that will never be known if the police can?t be bothered to investigate. so we cannot say that the crime is not ongoing and the danger is ?finished? as we don?t know if or when he will violently attack someone again. So the police response is completely inadequate. alice Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> With all the police cuts hard decisions have to be> made. This crime, horrid tho it is, seems to have> finished and the person was no longer in danger.> An ongoing crime would take precedence. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517281 Share on other sites More sharing options...
first mate Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 This.hellosailor Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Although luckily my friend was able to escape and> was no longer in imminent danger, the next person> he strangles may not escape. It most certainly is> a cause for concern that a man with a compulsion> to strangle a woman walking in daylight with her> child is not being sought by the police. It wasn?t> an attempted mugging or a mobile phone theft, he> tried to strangle her so forcefully that she has> bruises on her neck and burst capillaries and> fingernail marks, photographs of which should be> being taken by the police but are not. It may be> that he is on some substance that makes him have> violent impulses, it may be that he has mental> health issues or it may be that he has a sexual> urge that impels him to strangle passers by but> that will never be known if the police can?t be> bothered to investigate. so we cannot say that the> crime is not ongoing and the danger is ?finished?> as we don?t know if or when he will violently> attack someone again. So the police response is> completely inadequate. > > > alice Wrote:> --------------------------------------------------> -----> > With all the police cuts hard decisions have to> be> > made. This crime, horrid tho it is, seems to> have> > finished and the person was no longer in> danger.> > An ongoing crime would take precedence. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517283 Share on other sites More sharing options...
alice Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 I never said it wasn?t awful or should t be investigated. I said that a hard decision was made. Maybe that decision was wrong. I don?t know. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517284 Share on other sites More sharing options...
IlonaM Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 I strongly disagree. There has been an upsurge of violence against women in recent months. A battery and attempted murder - strangulation - is extremely serious and, given that the offender carried out this attack in broad daylight it should be high priority not only for the impact on the family involved, but the risk of further escalation.alice Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> With all the police cuts hard decisions have to be> made. This crime, horrid tho it is, seems to have> finished and the person was no longer in danger.> An ongoing crime would take precedence. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/286770-young-man-violently-attacked-a-mother-walking-home-with-her-son-on-wood-vale-please-be-vigilant/#findComment-1517285 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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