Jump to content

Recommended Posts

Daughter has been giving me grief for over 12 months now.


Can anyone tell me why a 15 year old needs an i-phone?


And why her dad should pay for it?


And if so, seeing as I am as tight as a proverbial, the best deal


And what is wrong with an i-phone 3 and/or a refurbed model?


(or Samsung, HTC etc)


Although I was a very early adopter of mobile phones I feel like I am now in the dark ages.


She has an answer for everything.


Sensible comments pretty please

Link to comment
https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/27286-i-phone-for-a-15-year-old/
Share on other sites

Part of it is peer pressure from school etc.

There's no real need obviously for specifically an iPhone, any device could do - except it's nooner about being able to just make calls is it ? Now it's about www access, apps, emails, shopping, games and - if you get bored with the device sometimes - the odd phone call.

No real need but then again there was no real need to have a pair of Gola footy boots aged 15 either - but turn up in a pair of Winfield Specials and you might just remember it as one of the worst and most humiliating days of your life.


If you've already tried the sheep/goat analogy then I'm afraid you're stuck. She's a teenager, reason and need don't come into it.

Daughter has been giving me grief for over 12 months now. -And


Can anyone tell me why a 15 year old needs an i-phone? - Uh


And why her dad should pay for it? - Coz


And if so, seeing as I am as tight as a proverbial, the best deal -UH


And what is wrong with an i-phone 3 and/or a refurbed model? - UHHHH


(or Samsung, HTC etc) - UHHHHHHH


Although I was a very early adopter of mobile phones I feel like I am now in the dark ages. -Uh yeah


She has an answer for everything. -And


Sensible comments pretty please -As if !

I don't think it's OK to buy iphones/ipads for teenagers. They're very expensive items... whether or not it's too expensive to give to a child is up to the parents I guess, but the chances are that it will get lost or broken, and it will also make them targets for mugging.


If I was in your position malumbu, I'd give them the choice of a basic android, blackberry, or refurbished iphone 3G (say up to the value of ?200). And tell them that if they're ungrateful, then they'll get nothing.

The thing I'd most worried about is mugging. The secondary issue is spoiling her.


15 year old girls are soft targets, and a ?600 phone will be admired and envied by friends and enemies alike.


There are plenty of things I want, and I have to budget, make sacrifices and wait, by which time I usually realise I didn't want them that bad.


How will she learn these lessons?

I thought it was blackberrys at this age? my son has one on a monthly contract since he was 15. he gets very little pocket momey and has to do certain chores to pay for the rental, bins/ recycling/ ironing/cooking a meal occasionally etc.I am sure the contract is less than ?20 a month.

As someone who still uses an iPhone 3G, I don't recommend getting it for your teenager. If you do go the refurbished route, get at least a 3GS. I know someone with a 3GS who gets by just fine, but the 3G continually frustrates me with how slow it's become. It makes me cranky and a worse person to be around :-P


Plus, the 3G is too old be able to use many modern, popular apps, so your daughter will probably still be unhappy that she can't use the same apps as her friends. You also can't remotely wipe it if it gets stolen. But if you go for a 3GS or newer, you don't have any of those problems.


EDIT: I should add, if you get a 3GS, you might find she has the problem with the apps next autumn, when Apple generally releases their new phones and phone operating systems. If you think the phone should last longer than a year, you might be better off getting something newer than a 3GS.

What Jeremy said. 15 Year olds want to have the latest things, but these days the latest cool things happen to be very expensive gadgets that are very desirable to muggers.


I wouldn't get an older version, she'd probably just hate you for it. Offer a mid range android / blackberry, and tell her if she'll only accept the iphone, then you'll put in what you would have spent on the mid range android / blackberry, and she can work for the rest.

We tell our boys that they've got ?100 each allocated by Santa/us. So they know there's a limit.


Anything over that is up to them to work for.


My 8 year old boy comes to work with me on deliveries, I pay him ?2 per drop. In the last year he's saved ?220 toward a new racing bike.


Our 12 year old has enough for a decent Kindle that he's had his eye on for a while.


Seems to work for us, plus the boys understand the value of money & hard work.

Huguenot Said

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

The thing I'd most worried about is mugging. The secondary issue is spoiling her.


15 year old girls are soft targets, and a ?600 phone will be admired and envied by friends and enemies alike.


There are plenty of things I want, and I have to budget, make sacrifices and wait, by which time I usually realise I didn't want them that bad.


How will she learn these lessons?


H is spot on I agree with his comments, also a child needs to know the value of money and how hard you have to work for it. I was in the same situation a year ago with my daughter who 17 she had to wait until I can afford it. She did do a few odd jobs to pay towards the phone which I was pleased.


I found a great deal on EBay it was a refurbished IPhone 4 unlocked it cost me ?240 and it is still in good condition after a year.


Maybe it worth having a look on EBay if you don't want to fork out ?600for Iphone.

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Latest Discussions

    • I went to France recently and in the city I visited there were large billboards on the main streets urging people to stop their dogs from messing on the streets and in a little park a sign said something to the effect that this park was built for your enjoyment not as a dumping ground for dog mess. There were also big signs about not fly tipping. I wonder if councils are too worried about offending dog owners by making a fuss about this major problem. I was a dog owner for many years, got free bags from the council and there were even bins around then.
    • I was also woken by this. It happened in two bursts, which felt even more anti social.
    • Surprised at how many people take the 'oooh it's great it got approved, something is better than nothing' view. This is exactly Southwark council's approach, pandering to greedy developers for the absolute bare minimum of social and affordable housing. It's exactly why, under their leadership, only a fraction of social and affordable housing has been built in the borough - weirdly Mccash chose to highlight their own failures in his 'near unprecedented' (yet unbiased 😆) submission. All the objectors i have met support redevelopment, to benefit those in need of homes and the community - not change it forever. The council could and should be bolder, demand twice the social and affordable housing in these schemes, and not concede to 8 storeys of unneeded student bedsits. If it is a question of viability, publically disclose the business plan to prove how impossible it might be to turn a profit. Once the thing is built these sites can never be used for social or affordable housing. The council blows every opportunity, every time. Its pathetic. Developers admitted the scale was, in this instance, not required for viability. The student movements data seemed completely made up. The claim that 'students are taking up private rentals' was backed up with no data. There is empty student housing on denmark hill, needs to be fixed up but it's there already built. The council allows developers years to build cosy relationships with planners such that the final decision is a formality - substantiated objections are dismissed with wooly words and BS. Key meetings and consultations are scheduled deliberately to garner minimal engagement or objection. Local councillors, who we fund, ignore their constituents concerns. Those councillors that dare waiver in the predetermination are slapped down. Not very democratic. They've removed management and accountability by having no nomination agreement with any of the 'many london universities needing accommodation' - these direct lets MAKE MORE MONEY. A privately run firm will supposedly ensure everyone that those living there is actually a student and adheres to any conduct guidelines. There's no separation to residents - especially to ones on their own development. Could go on... We'll see how many of the 53 social/affordable units that we're all so happy to have approved actually get built. 
    • I am looking for 1 unit which is working for £50 cash. Thank you
Home
Events
Sign In

Sign In



Or sign in with one of these services

Search
×
    Search In
×
×
  • Create New...