DovertheRoad Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 I think most of us would celebrate the renewed push for true gender equality in everything from the workplace, to sporting coverage and politics.So why do women so often insist they handover the tongs? Why do they so often retreat to the Harvey Jones kitchen to fuss over a salad whilst their "Dave" gets plaudits for "skillfully" destroying a once promising sausage? Is it something to do with cavemen?Girls, womanfolk, sisters! FFS dont play along with this outdated stereotype. Next time say "I'm gonna do it" . RISE. Yeah it's time.And before you all go mansplaining this one, I'd like to hear a female perspective on this.. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
nxjen Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Perhaps women know that should they start doing a barbecue it won?t be too long before a man will start mansplaining how to do it and take the tongs out of her hands, in a very short while, she?s been sidelined. It does have its upsides: it leaves women free to socialise and any culinary disasters and resulting food poisoning will not be down to her. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441751 Share on other sites More sharing options...
malumbu Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 In my naturist club women do all the barbecuing as it is less hazardous. Too many blokes had been rushed to A&E in earlier years with bags of frozen peas covering their pain and embarrassment. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441758 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jules-and-Boo Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 I wish,my man usually starts the BBQ then goes off to watch the football Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441767 Share on other sites More sharing options...
KalamityKel Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Come on people we gotta give the men SOMETHING to do! ;-) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441769 Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpringTime Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Really women's hands aren't designed for barbecues. They have turned out to be very good for making sandwiches though. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441771 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartacus Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Dangerous waters you are sailing DoverTheRoad Hope you have Mae West on for when you get tipped out of your boat 😱Threads on Brexit, political outcry, cycle lanes and Road Closures seem tame compared to what could happen in here ! > Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441773 Share on other sites More sharing options...
KidKruger Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 ....because blokes are shit at salads ? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441807 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartacus Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 KidKruger Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> ....because blokes are shit at salads ?And kid just lobbed in a hand grenade of controversy Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441808 Share on other sites More sharing options...
DovertheRoad Posted August 8, 2020 Author Share Posted August 8, 2020 KidKruger Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> ....because blokes are shit at salads ?I would say more men make salads than women barbecue. It's all in the dressing isn't it? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441847 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartacus Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 DovertheRoad Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> KidKruger Wrote:> --------------------------------------------------> -----> > ....because blokes are shit at salads ?> > > I would say more men make salads than women> barbecue. It's all in the dressing isn't it?Whatttttt , there's a special way if getting dressed before making a salad Well you live and learn and could explain why my salads are so bland, lack of imagination in dressing up.... Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441857 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blah Blah Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Isn't this a bit like the question 'why is it nearly always the man that drives?' one. I suspect the evolution of BBQ thing comes from men being butchers and preparing all things meat. And we probably have the Victorians to thank for it, as with many things. Nowadays though, I think women are just smart enough to know that if you can get a man to do the donkey work, let them do it ;) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441858 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartacus Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Blah Blah Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Isn't this a bit like the question 'why is it> nearly always the man that drives?' one. I suspect> the evolution of BBQ thing comes from men being> butchers and preparing all things meat. And we> probably have the Victorians to thank for it, as> with many things. Nowadays though, I think women> are just smart enough to know that if you can get> a man to do the donkey work, let them do it ;)And blah just launched a scud missile into the mix .... dude don't do it ...Spartacus runs for cover and considers hiding behind a rock till the dust settles and the women come out victorious from the fight at we all know they will ! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441859 Share on other sites More sharing options...
DovertheRoad Posted August 8, 2020 Author Share Posted August 8, 2020 Nice analysis Blah. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441873 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartacus Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 DovertheRoad Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Nice analysis Blah.You two are on your own now , I've called the Samaritan's for you as you both seem keen to end it all but I can't be responsible for the carnage that you are begging for ! I've also told my mummy and she says I can hide behind her skirt so I don't have to watch the ritual disembowelment by the collective war machine commonly know as the East Dulwich Women's Institute 😭 Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441874 Share on other sites More sharing options...
KidKruger Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Question is, WHO cleans the sodding BBQ ? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441875 Share on other sites More sharing options...
KalamityKel Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 KidKruger Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Question is, WHO cleans the sodding BBQ ?Buy a new one Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441888 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blah Blah Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 lol Spartacus! I've already had 'the look' from the wife. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441892 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartacus Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Blah Blah Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> lol Spartacus! I've already had 'the look' from> the wife.Who dis I've changed my phone and don't know who you are (especially if you are getting "THAT look")You're on your own now as no man or army can defend you especially as your wife will soon raise the time you did x y z back in 2010 and she still hasn't forgiven you - Mrs Blah ,right with you on that (Spartacus knows which side his bread is buttered in this fight) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441896 Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnie Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Men do the barbecue because we are shit at social interaction, and scared by it too. We will do the bar if asked, but would prefer just to put coats on the bed upstairs, till someone we likes arrives. Then we can show them the lawnmower, or the new boiler. We didn't want to have the party. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441912 Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnie Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 edit as it was duplicated. But sausage? Bit pink but OK? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441913 Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishbiscuits Posted August 8, 2020 Share Posted August 8, 2020 Blah Blah Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> I think women are just smart enough to know that if you can get> a man to do the donkey work, let them do it ;)KidKruger Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Question is, WHO cleans the sodding BBQ ?Looks like you've already arrived at the answer. But to summarize - women don't like to get smelly and smokey, and they also know that men like fire, so it's a no-brainer. Cleaning it then becomes our responsibility by default, as obvs we're the one that used it.Interestingly, if us men try a similar tactic (i.e. "I really don't enjoy cleaning, but I know it brings out your homemaking instinct, so here's the hoover, I'll make the drinks"), it is considered inappropriate!! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1441928 Share on other sites More sharing options...
dontbesilly Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 Women i find are happy to not go anywhere near the BBQ, for various reasons such as their hair will get smelly, and this is certainly how it should stay.No one bothers eating the salad or healthy stuff apart from the women, so they can take care of that aspect , and the men should just get on with cooking the meat and drinking cold beers. Washing up is also best handled by the woman. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1442307 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Siduhe Posted August 10, 2020 Share Posted August 10, 2020 Slow hand clap for that one, dontbesilly. Another 2/10 effort. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1442402 Share on other sites More sharing options...
binkylilyput Posted August 11, 2020 Share Posted August 11, 2020 It's because the women have already:Bought the foodStored the foodPrepared the foodSorted out the BBQ area so it's ready to BBQMade the arrangement with friends to come overFigured out which guests are veggie etcCleaned the house so it is fit for people walk throughCleaned the bathroom and toilet so guests aren't horrifiedDressed the kidsEntertained the kids while they waitFilled the paddling poolBrought the food out to the tableOrganised cutlery, plates etcGotten everyone drinksSorted out the kids who are now fighting, crying or falling out of a treeEnsured there are salads and other things to go with BBQ foodMade sure everyone has something to eatThen...?Cleared the platesTopped up everyone's drinksSorted out icecream or some kind of pudSocialisedAttended to the kids for the millionth timeTidied upCleared awayWashed upPut everything awaySorted out the kids againSound familiar guys? Nope? Of course not, the men folk haven't noticed all of this happening (daily.....as if it's a miracle) because they are too busy with their one responsibility which is to turn a burger and attempt not to kill anyone with an under cooked drumstick Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/260233-women-and-barbecues/#findComment-1442539 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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