alice Posted September 18, 2018 Share Posted September 18, 2018 robbin Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> I imagine Mr Khan probably takes the view that> it's just part and parcel of living in a big city.And you call me disingenuous. Maybe start your own thread. There?s plenty who will follow. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1278736 Share on other sites More sharing options...
robbin Posted September 18, 2018 Share Posted September 18, 2018 Alice, please remind me of where/when anybody on this thread said cities were crime free? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1278743 Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishbiscuits Posted September 19, 2018 Share Posted September 19, 2018 On a practical level... minicabs/Uber are surely a reasonably safe option of getting home after dark. Not a cheap option, granted. But maybe for a few weeks/months while they're still feeling vulnerable. And of course the good old-fashioned lift home.Also, things like carrying a cheap, basic phone and "uglifying" your bike will possibly make you less of a target. (I have no evidence that these will help, just a hunch) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1278980 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nicholas Posted September 20, 2018 Share Posted September 20, 2018 Shame we have live like this, don?t carry decent phone or ride a decent bike etc. Although I?m not a big fan of Mr Khan, unless we get more bobbys on the the beat 24/7 incluing stop and search I can?t see things getting any better.As I said above it?s easy picking around this area! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1279124 Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishbiscuits Posted September 20, 2018 Share Posted September 20, 2018 Generally my attitude with phones is either get it insured, or carry one you can afford to replace. Unfortunately it was the same when I was a kid, things aren't gonna change any time soon so you need to be a bit pragmatic. And it's not just about theft... loss or damage is just as likely. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1279143 Share on other sites More sharing options...
DiD Posted September 20, 2018 Author Share Posted September 20, 2018 I go back to the original post -- this wasn't about losing 'stuff' or hankering back to the 'good ol days', it was about feeling safe. I think my son is getting through it, but for kids to constantly feel insecure or at risk, is a shame. And there is a rise in knife crime, which heightens the fear. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1279154 Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishbiscuits Posted September 20, 2018 Share Posted September 20, 2018 I know it's not about "losing stuff". I thought I explained, my theory is that carrying less valuables can make you feel less vulnerable. Perhaps it is only a psychological thing, but nevertheless it works for me. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1279165 Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnL Posted September 20, 2018 Share Posted September 20, 2018 fishbiscuits Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> I know it's not about "losing stuff". I thought I> explained, my theory is that carrying less> valuables can make you feel less vulnerable.> Perhaps it is only a psychological thing, but> nevertheless it works for me.That's rather individual. I've actually thought of carrying the "fake wallet" etc, I certainly wouldn't wear a Rolex (I don't even wear a watch) - but I would carry an iPhone XS (I'm not prepared to sacrifice that).At one time I'd have loved a small moped - but just wouldn't now. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1279170 Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishbiscuits Posted September 20, 2018 Share Posted September 20, 2018 100% right John, it's an individual choice. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1279178 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Take Note Posted September 21, 2018 Share Posted September 21, 2018 Really sorry to hear this. But this is not about a postcode - it happens everywhere because certain youths feel (know) they are untouchable, and having no police presence anywhere doesn't help at all. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/203925-teenagers-mugged-how-to-make-them-feel-safe-again/page/2/#findComment-1279706 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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