sophiechristophy Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 http://www.change.org/petitions/worldwide-mothers-support-habiba-immf-give-her-baby-back Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
mima08 Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 not sure if bumping is allowed, but the story made me cry... Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-446559 Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophiechristophy Posted June 18, 2011 Author Share Posted June 18, 2011 I know mima08, it is absolutely tragic isn't it. So sad. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-446563 Share on other sites More sharing options...
apenn Posted June 19, 2011 Share Posted June 19, 2011 Signed and shared on FB. Outrageous. I hope Alma and her mother are reunited immediatly. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-446819 Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluesuperted Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 Words fail me on this, I hope as many forumites as possible sign this petition. The thought of it makes me feel sick. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-446854 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Curly Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 'The IMMF stated that the child was taken because her mother was mentally unstable and unable to care for her daughter, but medical professionals have evaluated Habiba and found her to be in perfect psychological health.Members of the Breastfeeding Committee of the Spanish Association of Pediatrics have reviewed the situation, acknowledged the healthy relationship between mother and baby, and suggested that the separation will have dire psychological consequences for both. They have asked that Alma be returned to her mother.On June 16, 2011, Habiba was allowed to visit with her child temporarily. It was reported that while they were together, Alma tried to nurse?which is comforting for both mother and baby, and recommended by the World Health Organization for the health of children up to two years old and beyond, as long as it is mutually desired by both mother and child?and was emphatically prevented from doing so by a supervisor' http://www.imperfectparent.com/topics/2011/06/17/a-mothers-nightmare-spanish-government-takes-away-rights-of-a-mother/ Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-446859 Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluesuperted Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 I just don't understand how this could happen. It terrifies me as the so-called 'chaotic' patenting style that appears to be under criticism is my own. What is it about extended breastfeeding, BLW and cosleeping that has angered the authorities in this way? I'm stumped. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-446865 Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanity girl Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 Have just read this and signed the petition. Makes me feel sick to the stomach. Hope as many others as possible will also read and sign! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-446887 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saffron Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 http://theotherbabybook.wordpress.com/2011/06/15/is-habiba-a-hoax/(excerpt below)"I?ll admit ? it seems almost too hard to believe. That major news stations are not picking the story up only adds to the skepticism. It also adds to the tragedy. CNN.com has completely ignored the issue, and today?s feature articles are on cole slaw, the top ten most expensive housing markets, and Hugh Hefner?s fiance. I can?t tell you for sure why they think Playboy bunnies are more newsworthy than the oppression of an Attachment Parenting mother, but I have a pretty good guess: their bottom line."Does anyone know how to contact the BBC to ask them to investigate and broadcast this story? After all isn't that what we pay our license fees for?!? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-446908 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dulwich Born And Bred Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 Absolutely uttering shocking especially as it could easily be my son since we co sleep , he is 21 months and still breastfed due to allergies , It's shocking. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447007 Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluesuperted Posted June 20, 2011 Share Posted June 20, 2011 Surely there's a forumite who is also a journalist or knows one?Totally agree it's shocking how little coverage this is receiving outside of social media... Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447016 Share on other sites More sharing options...
mima08 Posted June 21, 2011 Share Posted June 21, 2011 hope the link works?https://docs.google.com/document/d/1FDCuOChOCj_EbeeoLKXC8pT6VdJ8tk8Qg4KPJMRo1II/mobilebasic?various ways to try & help Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447322 Share on other sites More sharing options...
buggie Posted June 21, 2011 Share Posted June 21, 2011 Guardian ReportFind final few paragraphs suggest there may be far more to this than has been reported. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447486 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otta Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 It does sound terrible when it's presented in the way it has been, but I can't believe that it's quite as simple as the petition is suggesting. A panel of social services professionals are not going to take a child away from it's mother because of breast feeding, I just can't believe that. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447503 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moos Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Not a great surprise, is it? Why idiot celebrities and campaigners have to jump on these bandwagons wihout finding out all the facts is beyond me. Madrid authorities insist thst they do support breastfeeding but the mother has an ongoing relationship with a violent father, neglects the baby, doesn't wash her... all sound like much more likely grounds to me. "Baby Dies Of Neglect After Spanish Authorities Fail To Act", anyone?Edited for various typos Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447513 Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophiechristophy Posted June 22, 2011 Author Share Posted June 22, 2011 I am sure there is more to the story than has been briefly summarised up until now, however unless the mother presented a real danger to the child, can it be justified to remove the child from her and allow such limited contact? This can not surely be in the child's best interests. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447526 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dulwich Born And Bred Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 If you read the blogs and the letters from the doctors etc you will find that the Guardian is in fact incorrect http://www.facebook.com/plugins/likebox.php?href=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FWeAreAllHabiba%3Fsk%3Dinfo%23%21%2FWeAreAllHabiba%3Fsk%3Dwall&width=230&colorscheme=dark&show_faces=true&border_color&stream=true&header=true&height=427 Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447528 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dulwich Born And Bred Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 The centre is known to force mothers to give up breastfeeding and even make them take drugs to dry up their milk. The kids are also put up for adoption. There is a lot more information and their terrible practises coming to light. That Guardian article was put up with no supporting evidence BEFORE the doctors and other reports came out. It is sound that the mother is in complete sound health and that the centre lied. You can get all this information and more on the offical site. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447532 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moos Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 sophy, think you raise a really good question - how do you draw the line, and on what grounds. I'd be interested to see what evidence is available - a copy of the report for eg. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447537 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dulwich Born And Bred Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Moos, there is a link on the guardian article which takes you to the findings. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447544 Share on other sites More sharing options...
StraferJack Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 what about this report tho"the committee that decided to remove Alma had received a separate report that mentioned "chaotic" breastfeeding as a relatively minor concern." Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447558 Share on other sites More sharing options...
StraferJack Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 To expandThe thought of a child being removed because of breastfeeding patterns is massively concerningBut equallyThe thought of a child being left with a mother/father who, regardless of breastfeeding habits, is putting the child?s life/health at risk is massively concerningFrom what I can see on this thread and on the facebook page, a lot of breast-feeding mothers are focusing on that aspect alone and disregarding anything else, with a suggestion that there is some conspiracy against breat-feeding. Which doesn?t make any sense at all does it? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447568 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dulwich Born And Bred Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Is no one clicking on the link on the article from the doctor? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447583 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dulwich Born And Bred Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 http://www.phdinparenting.com/2011/06/09/spanish-government-authorities-removed-15-month-old-nursling-from-mothers-care-due-to-her-refusal-to-wean-her-child-by-force/http://theotherbabybook.wordpress.com/2011/06/15/habiba-hits-the-news-doctors-speak-out/http://www.weareallhabiba.blogspot.com/ Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447586 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moos Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 HeidiHi, the link to the report that I found on the Guardian was only excerpts and did not mention the graver concerns that the report is said to contain. It was a report by doctors and breasstfeeding experts on te breastfeeding aspects of the report, not the overall situation. Was there something that showed the whole case that I missed? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17936-have-you-heard-about-the-mother-and-daughter-separated-in-spain-please-sign-this-petition/#findComment-447590 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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