FreeB Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 I don't think women who are intimidated are femenist or hate women. If their partner don't come to a conclusion for toolong, then something is not right. She or them may think are wasting their time I would say the world Macho that only guys can do what they want but women no. The woman has only read the topics, and does it, they don't have time for intimidating the public, this is unnecessary. becouse Women who truly love their partners are faithfull, loyal, and morewhy the would choose to do something else unless love is not there anymore. Most people when they have bad experienceare worry about their relashionships and probably they don't get married again.Some women like to get to know their partners first before being committed again to a new partner or have sex and that means not interested in money but loyalty, and love.Two things together can bring happiness becouse if you have a lot of in commom sharing interests, qualities, etc then for sure they can work together and succeed.If not what is the point being together for too long. Instead of that I would campaign for freedom to achieve goals.You can do it alone or in group everything in life is posible. Why ! No Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448505 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huguenot Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Eh? What?"the definition of feminism has recently broadened somewhat and can now include celebrating the misogynist male invention of "slut"""...the male invention of slut""...the male invention of slut"I think we can agree that means that she thinks 'males' 'invented' the word 'slut' can't we? What other meaning could that sentence possibly have?I didn't mention any personal views, just that anyone with a prediliction for making crap up isn't worth listening to.And whilst I don't disagree with the madonna/whore concept in principle, it doesn't take away from the fact that it is women who predominantly use the word slut, they use it against other women, and consequently are more than likely to have a hand in the generation and consolidation of the term.I genuinely cannot understand how any other interpretation could be drawn, unless women were quite happy to ignore all the evidence when laying responsibility for all evils incorrectly at the feet of the opposite gender. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448508 Share on other sites More sharing options...
mockney piers Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 True, In a recent episode of Family Guy when it emerges that Lois starred in a porn movie when she was young it's Joe's wife who comes round and calls her a 'slut'.It must be true then as all truths are contained within the parabulous marvel that is Family Guy. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448513 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huguenot Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Incidentally whilst the madonna/whore concept highlights (somewhat disparagingly) the vicissitudes of men in their approach to women, women aren't exactly consistent in their approach to men.Hunter one minute, farmer the next; psychotherapist today and chest thumping pounding paramour tomorrow. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448516 Share on other sites More sharing options...
DonkyOne Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Hi !Huguenot about you topic; hunter one minute,hunter two minutes, farmer here farmer there. M, M, I will have a read the whole campaign again as I am going in circles.Just to mention if someone wants to go to Clayton Rd behind the Ryedoesn't exits, and I call a few numbers they don't exist either or they are wrong numbers. 6 moths 3hours 5 minutes and 2 seconds. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448526 Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyDeliah Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Huguenot Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> > Hunter one minute, farmer the next;> psychotherapist today and chest thumping pounding> paramour tomorrow.Hugo is clearly a man of hidden talents! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448542 Share on other sites More sharing options...
RosieH Posted June 24, 2011 Author Share Posted June 24, 2011 Haha, yes Hughie, to be fair, I can see how you ask the question. I actually read it as the concept of slut, which probably says more about me than it does about you.And you're right again, women want all kinds of things from a man. But I'm yet to meet a woman who actually thinks less of a man because he deigned to sleep with her. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448554 Share on other sites More sharing options...
StraferJack Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 then you clearly aren't reading LadyD's posts properly Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448555 Share on other sites More sharing options...
RosieH Posted June 24, 2011 Author Share Posted June 24, 2011 Badoom-tish.I love Fridays. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448559 Share on other sites More sharing options...
DonkyOne Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 .... Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448569 Share on other sites More sharing options...
DonkyOne Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 DonkyOne Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------More information found in some libraries not so much about sex but other things that can help to clarify the full history. So many around you need to find out which library would have the book you are looking for. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448571 Share on other sites More sharing options...
RosieH Posted June 24, 2011 Author Share Posted June 24, 2011 I agree. Many many around me need to find a book and a history of the sex. Not me though. I wrote the book. No no, I didn't, LadyD did.I just read at her knee. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448585 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loz Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 In one of the Guardian comment areas there was a rather amusing tale. I was well dressed that day as a friend (who was in the trade) got me in for free to an expensive club when on a trip to London. Inside I was mobbed by 6 young women. I was so shocked by the attention (I have a form that only a mother could love) that I asked my friend why they were doing this. He said: "Because they think you are a City worker".It's always nice to find out that women and men can be equally shallow. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448588 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huguenot Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Many many I. DeaD! Train the red robin said purple headed mountain. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448596 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peckhamgatecrasher Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Always suspected H. was a bot.**in the traditional sense of the word of course. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448637 Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxxi Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Huguenot Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Many many I. DeaD! Train the red robin said purple> headed mountain.Referencing need Need to droP the Dead DonkeyOne ? No, libraries are usefull amenities and all the ties that biind. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448650 Share on other sites More sharing options...
FreeB Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 DonkyOne is already dead the foxes have kill him off nothing to worry about for now Maxxi newcomers will join the footie. I will miss DonkyOne, Donky two, Donky three and so on as well as the Kentucky's and Humsters :-$ Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448659 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damian H Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 In terms of the Madonna/Whore dichotomy etc etc - Annabel Chong engaged in her high profile gang-bang (251 acts with about 70 men in 10 hours) for the express purpose of challenging the notion that a woman did not have the right to be sexually voracious without being roundly condemned. Ironically, as would be predicted by Hugeonot's earlier posts, many of the most vicious attacks and condemnations of 'sluttery' came from women not from men who seemed to be much more blasse and accepting about it.The reaction from many women, frankly, was as if Chong had just debased the currency. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448667 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tarot Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 I dont mind women dressing as sluts, as long as they dont look like trannies, Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448673 Share on other sites More sharing options...
RosieH Posted June 24, 2011 Author Share Posted June 24, 2011 Damian, I think there was widespread concern among women that the stunt was in fact a grotesque film of self-harm that had come on the back of earlier sexual abuse. There were serious concerns about the state her mental health. The lack of precautions taken (no use of condoms / sexual health testing of the participants) and her comment that she likes to be treated like a piece of meat, and talking about the pain involved are probably pretty instrumental in women's not taking a positive view of this as some affirmative piece of empowerment theatre. It blatantly wasn't.And of course the men were blase, 251 of them fucked her. But would any of those men have married or made her their girlfriend subsequently? There's the dichotomy. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448685 Share on other sites More sharing options...
mockney piers Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 Of course they wouldn't, she's obviously a bloody loon. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448695 Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyDeliah Posted June 24, 2011 Share Posted June 24, 2011 RosieH Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> I agree. Many many around me need to find a book> and a history of the sex. Not me though. I wrote> the book. > > No no, I didn't, LadyD did.> > I just read at her knee.I am flattered! lol Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448772 Share on other sites More sharing options...
RosieH Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 mockney piers Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Of course they wouldn't, she's obviously a bloody> loon.Well yes. Evidentemente. My point was precisely that, though it didn't stop the men having sex with her. Personally I prefer to have sex with people I actually like. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448822 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Huguenot Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Well I guess there's a Darwinian imperative that inclines ladies to pursue quality over quantity, and men to pursue quantity over quality.Annabel Chong's story was a very sad one - having left the relatively low crime and somewhat conservative environs of Singapore she travelled to London to study. The combination of newfound freedoms, a degree of teenage rebellion and an inappropriately trusting personality (for London anyway) left her gang-raped in an alley and dumped in a rubbish cupboard.I don't think most people wanted to know about that regarding 251. In context this was a tragic reflection of someone who's lost their footing and is probably trying to work out what it's all about.However, I agree with some of the posters that it was mostly women who abused her for it. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448845 Share on other sites More sharing options...
RosieH Posted June 25, 2011 Author Share Posted June 25, 2011 you would Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/17761-slutwalk/page/9/#findComment-448846 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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