Scribe Posted February 13, 2011 Share Posted February 13, 2011 Quote Quote You'd probably have to make do with a silver medal in the backpedaling event, Brum. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410798 Share on other sites More sharing options...
brum Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 I instinctively back the underdog. Can't help myself. That is until new evidence emerges which even I struggle to defend....! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410815 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annette Curtain Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 > Of all the relationships and marriages I've had over my life > so far, no one has touched me so deeply as you did.Give me his phone number, he ain't seen nothing yet.Nette.:)(td) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410817 Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Bob* Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 daizie Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Sounds like a drama queen who wants attention .> Poor you louisiana.Drama Queen, you say? At least he only posted it to one person. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410818 Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyDeliah Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 He seems like he's totally up his own orifice and the shine may have come off his current relationship, so in pathetic self-pity he's trying to reconstruct what could have been with you but which he patently did/does not deserve. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410822 Share on other sites More sharing options...
legalbeagle Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Ah bless. I'm feeling sorry for him again now. Fickle, us girls. Happy Valentines! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410827 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atticus Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Scribe, I was being sarcastic. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410840 Share on other sites More sharing options...
louisiana Posted February 14, 2011 Author Share Posted February 14, 2011 *Bob*, we don't actually know how many lasses have/had been fed similar lines. If you're plate spinning to the extent of going out/on holiday/shacking up with various ladies A, B, C etc., presumably they each need to be fed a line of some sort. At one point, having dashed back from holiday with one such lady in order to locate me at a particular place, he did admit to me he hadn't told her what he was up to and said she would be angry if she knew, so presumably some not very frank line had been peddled there.I just find it very odd that someone should come out with the kind of stuff written to person A while moving in with person B. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410862 Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJKillaQueen Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Quite....something equally unfathomable happened to a friend of mine years ago. Her boyfriend propesed to her, and then two weeks later moved in with someone else. Some people I think, just crave attention without a thought for the feelings of the other person. It took her a long time to get over it. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410864 Share on other sites More sharing options...
KidKruger Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 I think some people need a Plan B (or C, D, etc) to accompany their main course, sort of a back-up. I guess that's an insecurity / attention-seeking problem.I do not agree however with the automatic branding of a person as a failure if they've had 3x divorces. That's an ignorant generalisation. Seems like a self-satisfied know-it-all viewpoint. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410867 Share on other sites More sharing options...
*Bob* Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 louisiana Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> I just find it very odd that someone should come> out with the kind of stuff written to person A> while moving in with person B.Isn't person A posting a detailed private email from person B (who they are no longer in a relationship with) - onto a public forum, on the eve of Valentines Day.. also.. a bit odd?Fun to read, of course. But for some reason I can't help thinking more about what is says about you for posting it than I am about him for writing it. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410871 Share on other sites More sharing options...
HonaloochieB Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Well if you will get webbed up with David Brent... Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410873 Share on other sites More sharing options...
louisiana Posted February 14, 2011 Author Share Posted February 14, 2011 KidKruger Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> I think some people need a Plan B (or C, D, etc)> to accompany their main course, sort of a back-up.> I guess that's an insecurity / attention-seeking> problem.I had myself reached the conclusion that there are some people who cannot be alone, at all. Period. I hadn't realised that.> > I do not agree however with the automatic branding> of a person as a failure if they've had 3x> divorces. That's an ignorant generalisation. > Seems like a self-satisfied know-it-all viewpoint.I agree. Which is why I gave him the benefit of the doubt over several years. The quality of the marriage is more indicative than the number, mebbee? (However, in hindsight, it did feel like a bit of a 'beware' that I hadn't given sufficient weight to.) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410909 Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJKillaQueen Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 All that three divorces means is three failed relationships. Some people marry whereas others just live together. I think that 'some people just can't ever be alone' is probably the truest observation. We all know people like that and they are also the people who easily jump ship when someone more appealing comes along. And I personally avoid them like the Plague. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410914 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annette Curtain Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 In times like this I consult...http://members.actionnet.com/~jeffress/Sack.gif the "bag of life" one crinkle for yes , two for no.If the handle drops off I move on.It's never let me down.N(!) Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410931 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Poor you. Some people (male and female) are just in love with falling in love - with the heightened sense of themselves that it gives them. Think it's a kind of narcissism. I've learned to be suspicious of anyone who has a history of seamless or overlapping relationships. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410932 Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeban Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Ms B Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Poor you. Some people (male and female) are just> in love with falling in love - with the heightened> sense of themselves that it gives them. Think it's> a kind of narcissism. I've learned to be> suspicious of anyone who has a history of seamless> or overlapping relationshipsAgree Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410935 Share on other sites More sharing options...
fyvum Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Soooo Louisiana, it sounds to me as if you were both in love with the same guy.............and he still is. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410949 Share on other sites More sharing options...
legalbeagle Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Gone off him again now. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410950 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narnia Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 legalbeagle Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> Gone off him again now.Typical. Huh! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-410995 Share on other sites More sharing options...
camberwell70 Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Annette Curtain Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> > Of all the relationships and marriages I've had> over my life > > so far, no one has touched me so deeply as you> did.> > Give me his phone number, he ain't seen nothing> yet.> Nette.> > :)> (td)Are you related to Paula by any chance? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-411062 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loz Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 By 'eck you are fickle, legalbeagle. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-411070 Share on other sites More sharing options...
fyvum Posted February 15, 2011 Share Posted February 15, 2011 She can afford to be Loz, with half the fire service swooning at her feet. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-411169 Share on other sites More sharing options...
brum Posted February 15, 2011 Share Posted February 15, 2011 Half the fire service...?! No, just me. And 2 chickens and a dog. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-411185 Share on other sites More sharing options...
legalbeagle Posted February 15, 2011 Share Posted February 15, 2011 And swooning? I wish!! Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/15770-dedicated-to-lovers-everywhere/page/2/#findComment-411200 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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