Lewisham Choral Society sounds like it might be your thing. They meet on a Monday evening. I'm not a member but know a couple who are. Visit their website for details.
St barnabas, Carlton avenue in Dulwich village - wonderful choir or st saviours brockley rise (nice mixture of worshippers) both friendly and community focused.
I would say the woodcote green garden centre in wallington is exactly what you are looking for. About 40 minutes drive, cafe, clothes, food court, books, kitchenware, lovely Xmas decorations etc
There is a dog grooming shop opening soon at holly bush terrace crystal palace. They are inviting people to apply. I will try to post the telephone number. Good luck
I reported this to the police at 1am. I saw two guys on mopeds heading off onto Forest Hill Road one with the light on and one with the lights off and then I saw the chain and cover in the road so realised they had just pinched it! I couldn't give the police a description - sorry.
Here is a link. Booking is normally in August ?85 per term ?75 for concessions. It's not religious and definitely suitable for novices, you don't need to read music and there are no auditions. http://www.horniman.ac.uk/visit/events/raise-the-roof-thursdays-1031
My daughter goes to Stagecoach Dulwich - based at Bessemer Grange School. She has been going nearly three years and is thirteen. She loves it. They put on demonstrations at the end of the autumn and spring term and a big production each summer term. She has performed at two west end theatres and at the Red House Book Awards (where she met David Walliams). They also organise trips to West End show at least twice per year - Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Matilda etc. Although it is expensive - ?30 per week for 3 hours of lessons, I would recommend it.
I enjoyed it too, there's plenty to see and do. I'd say three hours for your visit is about right. It is in the middle of nowhere though. You can get the bus from the station but it's another 25 minutes. So a very tiring day altogether. The cafe and shop are quite pricey, we took a packed lunch.