Rendel, It just struck me as a shame that you, and Joylo were unable to have a civilised debate/chat with Lindylou. Her view was one of kindness, and your own and Joylo's one of cynicism and harshness. I'd like to think that you, an adult (I think?!) would be able to control your emotions when responding to another user (and member of the local community!). Then again, maybe Internet forums/social median aren't for you. Sorry for spelling your name wrong by the way, buddy. Hope you've learned something! Wishing you the best, Josiah