Thank you so much for your replies, it really is so helpful, . KLove, You are so right, either decision will bring moments of regret, there's no right answer, I just need to be brave and make a decision. I think returning to the same role may be difficult after time out but you never know, I might try something different! Omagem, I also have a 3 & 2 year old! Massive best of luck with your 3rd, it'll be great, and they will be such good friends. x