We are thinking of selling our large 1 bed flat for something bigger. Naturally this won?t be in East Dulwich anymore as it?s eaten itself but we?d like to stay south of the river as our jobs are here. I?m interested to know how on earth others got on the second rung of the ladder. I fear it?s going to be harder than being a first time buyer even though we have decent equity. Side note, although we could move to a 2 bed flat, it seems like a bad use of funds: big stamp duty fee, gain an extra small bedroom but not much more overall square footage. So, like everyone else, we?re trying to jump to a pre-war house. How did you do it? Did you suddenly come into some money, e.g inheritance? Did you save like crazy to plug the difference? Take out a big mortgage and stretch yourself? Compromise hugely on area and pray it changes? Wait until you?re much older? Any real life experiences, good or bad, would be gratefully read.