Hi, I'm not much of a poster on here but thought I needed to say something in defence of the lady who runs this group and the group itself. I've been going to the goose green group every Thursday for the last six months with my daughter. I'm a white northern man, and although I've found it a little difficult to break in to some of the cliques that exist at some playgroups in the area I've always had a good time at this group. I was behind you in the queue and I really don't think you're intimidating, so I think you can stand down the indignation. also, the suggestion that this group is full of "yummy mummies" is something of a nonsense. It's about 80% Nannys, some mums, one grandma and me most weeks. I think there are a few things you need to consider: 1. The lady who runs the group can be a bit direct in her manner at times, but she's trying to organise a group of 30ish carers and children, so she can hardly sit around and have a chat with everyone as theyre queuing to get in, even on a normal week - the kids are all desperate to run in and play. 2. It was the Christmas party. The regular group members had all brought food and a present for their child to give to the Santa stand in. Is only fair that she let those people in before you. 3. If you had stuck around, as was suggested, you would have been able to get in. Maybe if you removed the large chip from your shoulder you'd get through the door next time
