Sorry if I'm butting in, but I think the role of the man should also be considered here. Its almost seen as a 'given' that us blokes will be the breadwinners and hardly contribute anything else to the upbringing of our own kids. However I think there is greater willingness amongst men to take an active part in the upbringing of their children and we are not content to just leave it to the women any more. Raising a child is a dual responsibility and, family finances permitting, either parent should be encouraged to work, or stay at home, if they so wish. I feel that society in the UK sees this step as too radical and so the status quo prevails, where the woman is expected to stay at home - thereby contributing to the frustration felt by women that their roles are not valued.