Bellenden Belle

I went for lamb chops with mash when I was in there the other week ... it was lovely. And Rose is nothing short of adorable....

It's not in East Dulwich and I have said it before but Babur really is fantastic...and only a short bus ride away. I was there on Sunday for the buffet... a concept I usually avoid like the plague... but it was once again outstanding. Go. Now. You won't regret it. (And yes, their wines are fantastic... as are their cocktails, and even their mocktails!)

Salmon paste on white toast

Musicals are not a guilty pleasure for me, they are a way of life!

Just bought a copy of The Celeb Diaries by the editor of Heat to read on holiday...in a similar vein to Piers Morgan's The Insider that I also relished....The Glory of Love, the theme tune to Karate Kid is another.... and lunch on Fridays when I should be writing ....oooh, and many many more....

Michael Palaeologus Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > David Carnell and Moos are awfully alike in looks > and niceness - would it be appropriate to have a > crush on both of them? Absolutely... I'm thoroughly smitten by both!

Happy Birthday Sean.... 21 again :)-D

dulwichmum Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > > Is it just me or do all women simply adore > articulate men? Never a truer word spoken Dulwichmum

Me? Little sweet unassuming me? Did someone say my name? Goodness *widens eyes* why, thank you very much indeed!

annaj Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I have a huge crush on bignumber5 ;-) Ahhh, bless!

Actually I rather think I love some footwear more than men!

david_carnell Wrote: > > > http://www.telegraph.co.uk/finance/2917570/Will-th > > > e-real-Studs-please-stand-up.html > > > > Writing up a report at work I suddenly had a > > Eureka moment and thought of this thread... > > BB, this merely reminds me of the famous Mrs > Merton quote: > > (To Debbie McGee) "So, Debbie, tell me, what first > attracted you to the millionaire Paul Daniels?" Hee hee... I knew people might think that! No, I have heard him speak.... he is articulate and charming, and hugely interested in the arts. He mentioned the inner workings of the Royal Court Theatre and I swooned! The fact he is a multi-millionaire bachelor is entirely irrelevant.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/finance/2917570/Will-the-real-Studs-please-stand-up.html Writing up a report at work I suddenly had a Eureka moment and thought of this thread...

Julian Rhind-Tutt - the blond from Green Wing and the Barclaycard ads. Sigh.... Gordon Ramsey - before he sold out - used to drive me wild. But now he's just a cliche. And when I was fourteen.... which is about a thousand years ago... it used to be Michael Crawford (but only in Barnum).

Yes - I was in there yesterday and tried some absolutely divine dark chocolate. The owner was lovely - I really wish them the best of luck. I do think it's quite brave to open such a shop on Bellenden Road at the present time.... it didn't surprise me to see that Bayberry on Bellenden Road has closed with a notice saying the Landlord has taken possession...

giggirl Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Grown women who wear pyjamas with pictures of > cutesy teddy bears (or similar) on them. Give me > a break - these shouldn't be seen on anyone over > the age of 16. Either sleep on the raw or get > some grown up lingere. Oh giggirl, so true! A friend of mine earlier this year took one look at my brushed cotton pyjamas (no teddy bear prints at least) and said "Good God.... what has become of you?" Her words were a short, sharp, shock I can tell you.

Yep, smug cash buyers are about. Like vultures.

MadWorld74 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > yawn... Are we keeping you awake Madworld? :)

I think Tedmax is a very worthy winner (although Gigirl is absolutely gorgeous in all ways). And definitely good to see Tedmax bringing the title to one of the best roads around!

Oh Moos - thank God you are here. I can cook... but I find it terribly stressful. I once took an entire day off work to cook homemade burgers when someone requested them as a birthday treat. Some people are just naturals in the kitchen - they come over all Edward Scissorhands (the ballet version) with knives as if the instruments in their hands are a mere extension of themselves. They embrace ingredients, taste things like it's a first kiss, and generally have the time of their lives. With me people flinch when they see me chopping as if at any moment I might do myself or them damage; my eyes stay glued to the recipe book and somehow I can never find the pan I need, which of course I only realise I need when I have read the third instruction in the darn book - leaving my timing in tatters. But I can slice an onion beautifully....my year of home economics served me well. So if anyone fancies a single onion served on a plate, I'm your girl!

I believe a child needs love, support, encouragement in a stable environment. I don't think that necessarily demands a traditional family - which let's face it is becoming rare nowadays. It's interesting that many adoption and foster agencies are willing to consider single people. Yes, it's a different scenario but it indicates that it is recognised as a feasible possibility. As fo it being selfish...haven't we already established having children is an inherently selfish act whatever your situation. And since we are not talking about young girls making the decision, but mature women who plan and make a conscious decision - including recognising the sacrifices and hardships it may involve, then should we be so quick to judge?

Beautifully clarified Moos... thank you for taking the time to do so. As for non-saggy bosoms - well, that extra cup size might suit me fine should the moment come :) And personally under "why having kids is the best thing ever" - I imagine being able to go out with food spilt down your top and to wave any comment away with a "ooooh, kids... what can you do?" would suit me just fine. I could definitely embrace being a slummy, rather than yummy, mummy!

david_carnell Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Old people. On mobility scooters. In the road. Or > on the pavement. Get. Out. Of. My. Way. > > Your Dad has made a noble decision for all of us > PGC. Ahhhh, there speaks the voice of youth. Personally I can't wait until I get myself a mobility scooter - I long to be able to stare down every one who dares to cross my path, with a "So? You gonna move or what". My petty annoyance for this week? Restaurants that don't accept bookings because they are sooooo popular.

Fundamental ? adj. forming a necessary base or core; of central importance: A discussion about what a great experience it is to have children is absolutely fine - I don't doubt it is. To describe it as a "fundamental stage of life" is something entirely different. Fundamental to the well-being of society I can acknowledge but how do you differentiate between human and individual experience Moos? But I absolutely agree with your point that it is far harder for men in society who find themselves without a partner. Although, with the proviso that they don't mind being an older father, there is less of a sense of urgency than for a woman.

I think your post beautifully summed up my thinking Indiepanda. I don't know if I absolutely believe a child strictly needs two parents, but I agree it would be tough to go it alone and simply economically crippling. I have enormous admiration for those women who do become "choice parents" though - since as single women it is frustrating to think one has to hang around waiting for Mr Right in order to fertilise one's eggs.