Tony.London Suburbs Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > charliecharlie Wrote: > "if you feed it, it will grow" also for the good > aspects of you life... and I don't mean your > belly > > Sorry, charliex2 but whatever do you mean, my > dear..? I think Charlie explained quite well what she meant. If you give energy and time to negative things in your life - be they thoughts; enemies; bitchiness... all manner of negative things, then things will just get worse. Instead, observe what's happening and how you are feeling and then just put them to one side.... just let go. And eventually they will lose their hold over you. Easy, innit?