Abeya

17 years old a child??????? Mummy, you need to do a systems reboot! Your soon is a young man! He needs to understand how the real world is. Many people are not nice or don't say the right things. what is important is that is knows what to do in those circumstances. If they are telling him that he is fat then they are not really respectable and nice people, so definetely I wouldn't engage further with them. That is the safest thing isn't it? If that is how they introduce themselves nothing better will come down the road for sure. If you son is in really a bit more padded that most of the rest he needs to address it. Does it bother him and he wants to do something or it doesn't bother him and he lives happily with it. I would say better be fat than too thin. At least you can still die, but you will die happy! I it no one's business other than his though! I am very fat myself. I don't give a s***. I would turn to those people and say. "I know, I feel like telling a stupid person how stupid they are when I see them, but then I think they wouldn't get it" - that should sut them up, no?