KidKruger,that's nice to hear. Think our Mother might have known her, we can remember her talking of an Evelyn. Please don't take this the wrong way, but make sure you continue to do this. Where I live, outside of London in a small village, we all look out for each other regardless of age.For example, we organise Xmas lunches paid by us for the older folk. They in turn look out for others property when out at work all day. It is a proper community, looking out for each other. Jeremy, we are not putting blame on neighbours, nothing could have been done, that is why we have deliberately allowed a passage of time before replying, otherwise it would have looked exactly like that, misplaced grief. The point is you, that is to say the royal you, seem to feel there is a great helpful caring community spirit, but people walked on by with their heads held down hoping not to be noticed at a time of need. I do realise this is the way of the world in a large city nowadays. Anyway, thanks to you both for replying, we shall not post on here again, but felt it polite to reply to your replies. You will see from our history that we have generally used the forum to assist in the disposal of furniture. Our few other contributions you will also see has been to try to help others. Subject matter almost always descends into I know best my dads bigger than your dad school children behaviour, and when this is pointed out stifling free speech seems to be quoted. This subject WILL go that way because it ALWAYS does. No, don't think so, just look at Otta post above.