dildals, devsdev, lovely to hear from you both and thanks for your messages. I am overwhelmed with all the messages received so far and it's really nice to hear there are other people out there who have gone through the same thing and who can understand your concerns and worries. Devsdev: I don't have any experience of oxygen but I have a friend who knew someone who had a premmie who went home on oxygen, perhaps I can try and put you in touch with her if you'd like? I will PM you both my details and perhaps we could meet or 'swap notes' sometime. Thanks again all.