Have just come back from hols to all this wonderful advice - thank you all so much!! I've just applied for the free nappy trial on the council website and will have a look at fill our pants. Sounds like the all-in-ones might be the way to go... Convex, I tried gnappies (a friend gave me a batch, the only ones I've tried so far) but I found leakage to be a real issue with them.. Thanks for all of you who offered your nappies to try. I'll see what fill your pants and the council site come back with and let you know! Thanks again!