hi Jen as said above.. congratulations! NCT classes are totally brilliant, as is going pregnancy yoga, hypnobirthing, etc.. but the one thing that makes the most difference according to the research on how positive a woman's birth experience is is... the midwife caring for her. Most first time mums - and many second time ones too - sadly don't know much about their choices outwith the NHS for maternity care. You've got various different options for maternity care in the UK, one of which is of course the NHS. I work for a really great organisation called Neighbourhood Midwives, and there are also lots of independent midwives around London too. We really can make a massive difference in your pregnancy, birth and postnatal care, so please have a think about your choices wishing you and your lovely bump all the very best Julie