Sympathy to you both - non stop crying of your own baby is awful and so stressful. We had difficulty with our first child (tongue tie/reflux/traumatic-ish birth) and I'd definitely recommend the paediatric osteopathy clinic at Wandsworth or shoreditch. Website is here: http://occ.uk.com. I had friends who told me 6 weeks/9weeks and 12 weeks were when things improved, and I remember counting down the days to 6weeks in desperation. But it WILL get better - take any support you can and I hope things improve soon. Be kind to yourselves too...