Michael58

My wife had a book and a cd which she listened to all the time. I also listened to the cd and had to learn some key phrases which I had to tell her during delivery and she said it had helped her a lot. I guess classes might be even better, but if you can?t afford it, I would say just buy the cd at least.

I?d just buy a basic one, not one that can wee or cry. That?s a waste of money.

We recently got photos taken of us and our children at home by Stefanie Usuanlele. Our home is really cluttered, as well, but you could never tell it was taken there. She was great with the kids and we got such great photos from the day. My wife and me are very pleased and we can highly recommend her. www.SpecialMomentsPhotographyLtd.co.uk

I?d say any island far away is good if you find a nice children friendly hotel which has kids clubs and animation for them, as well. So you get some time to yourselves, as well.

At fergju, do you bring your own nanny or can you get one from there? As we would need one for our youngest. Also considering, but not sure how it would turn out.

My children loved watching the fish from when they were very little. Very relaxing for them. There?s a shop in Crystal Palace.

We?ve been to Winter Wonderland and it was great.

All those replies are really usefull. Have the same problem at the moment, only tried Vicks on feet so far, but will try some of the other suggestions, too.