I posted my own advice on the subject to help someone make a decision, not to start an argument with a few very bored people. I was alarmed at the strongly negative and forceful responses, so felt the need to offer a different side. There is an argument for and against with not enough evidence on either side, making the decision making that much harder.Yes, I have posted only two times. I often have better things to do with my time than to start arguments on forums. Apparently this evening I have a little more time on my hands. I use the forum mainly as a way of keeping up to date with East Dulwich issues. As for my gender and whether I have children, I'm not sure of the relevance in that. Wow, people need to be more open minded, less judgemental and have a little more respect.