First of all, well done you guys for being devoted parents, and for asking for help. Totally agree with those who have suggested slings and everything else. Be careful with the tongue diagnosis, it's not always the answer. Can I add one more suggestion if baby is struggling with wind? I know it sounds a bit yoghurt weaver but there are some amazing baby massage techniques which are specifically designed to get wind out of babies and can be used every time you change a nappy, have a quiet mo, post feed to help baby clear all that trapped wind. They and you might just feel wonderful as a result. Best ones for our little one were cycling baby's legs, and Sun and moon. Sure you can find them on the internet if you can't get to a class yet. Good luck. It will change eventually. We all promise. X