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Still getting a giggle out of this. aquarius moon Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Unfortunately there are always going to be groups > of teenagers in playgrounds. They are bored > through lack of work or nothing to do. > I'm sure they are not there every day so maybe > just check it out first & if they are there, go > somewhere else. > > If you do encounter them again, might be a good > idea to have a more positive rather than negative > attitude: > > Ask for their advice re: footballing skills if the > ball runs into their territory. Do they know > anything about goalkeeping? Ask what teams they > support etc etc. > > Always best to befriend rather than make enemies > of if you feel threatened. > > You never know, they might actually enjoy engaging > rather than antagonising if it's just a case of > having nothing better to do.
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What hysteria? And really there's no need to say that you'd have given them a piece of your mind. We're all well aware of what a brave, ne'er a step back, citizen you are. LadyDeliah Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > How are they thugs? You guys are lame. I was a > youth worker for years and kids this age will test > how far they can push adults. It's universal, they > all do (with the exception of those of you who > were born middle aged). > > I personally would have told them they were > disrespectful little shits myself but the hysteria > on here over a bunch of idiot teenagers is > laughable.
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This, and I'm from NZ. *Bob* Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Doesn't ring true for me at all, but then I'm not > from around eeeeere originally. > > Pubs from what I remember were 'specifically' > niche and non-inclusive. The one you didn't go in > if you were over 20, the one you didn't go in if > you were a student, the one you didn't go in if > you were an unaccompanied female, the one you > didn't go in unless you knew someone who was a > regular, the one you didn't go in if you had long > hair.. and the one you just didn't go in.
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Your relationship with your neighbours? apbremer Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Would any kind soul know the very approximate cost > of a ground floor rear extension some 6m. wide and > 5m. deep, so 30 sq. meters of simple block > construction rendered, flat roof, half width > window to normal height, simple electric > connections and no drainage problems?? Admittedly > very early days without proper plans etc. as yet, > we have two rough quotes of what I think are > ridiculous figures. Thank you.
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Chuggington, chugga chugga chugga chugga Chuggington! The annoying tune in your head for today, you'e welcome.
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Sadness at changing atmosphere of East Dulwich
Tr? replied to vanstone's topic in General ED Issues / Gossip
At the National Theatre? You mean The Walkabout, right? -
Sadness at changing atmosphere of East Dulwich
Tr? replied to vanstone's topic in General ED Issues / Gossip
onthemove123 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- I hear stories from mates that during > the daytime, hurds of "yummy mummy's" spend all > day taking over a pub or cafe and only share one > pot of coffee between them. Your mates are a) full of sh*t, or b) just repeating the same old cliche their mates told them. -
Presume vgrant and DulwichVillageLady are the same person.
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I wonder how much of the hate of Gove is down to him looking like he does.
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We did cold turkey and it worked. Our first had his dummy until he was 3 and we were very nervous about taking it away. But when we did we only had one night of tears and then he was all good. So we were emboldened to try the same on our 5 month old and it was similarly easy. We didn't use any special technique or words, just a little extra TLC during the first night or two. All to say that, if you're lucky like us, it might not be the nightmare you think.
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i*Rate, do you ever read posts before you get your angry on?
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Strangers interfering in baby crying on bus.
Tr? replied to ukdealguide's topic in The Family Room Discussion
There'll always be mutterers who resent their peace being disturbed by a baby or toddler. Provided you're doing your best to keep your little one happy and occupied, just ignore them or ask them directly what their issue is. Most in my experience just say 'nothing' and go on muttering. I once sat opposite a woman who spent the entire train journey talking loudly on her mobile, and then started tutting when my boy got wriggly (but not loud). Once I'd sated myself by having a daydream about crushing her phone under my foot, I just ignored her. Some people just have a bent about noise from kids, just like I have a bent about loud phone conversations. -
No need for the space myself, but pls tell me the name of your store and I'll do my very best to visit and purchase your goods or services (provided you're not a women's hairdressers). A nice thought.
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It's not just bank statements, it's any and all info they can piece together. You're not an idiot if you throw out anything at all that has your personal data on it. Some people grew up in more innocent times. Bottom line is that these ladies ought not to be rummaging through your bins. And by way of a pre-emptive counter-strike, saying that does not make me a heartless Tory blow-in.
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It's not just bank statements, it's any and all info they can piece together. You're not an idiot if you throw out anything at all that has your personal data on it. Some people grew up in more innocent times. Bottom line is that these ladies ought not to be rummaging through your bins. And by way of a pre-emptive counter-strike, saying that does not make me a heartless Tory blow-in.
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A lot of the songs that I like and think would be good at a funeral just don't reflect my life. I like 'Hurt' but I imagine my wife and family and friends would be a bit confused if they heard it at my funeral. So I'm looking for a song that says 'I've had a good life, I'm sorry to go, and while I want you all to mourn me for my allotted 30 minutes please get on with your lives thereafter', in a suitably somber way. Any suggestions?
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Guess I'm supposed to answer these: 1. Correct, that's why I said 'I very much doubt'; 2. As someone who's been drunk and dealt with drunks, I do take a less rigid view of certain behavior if the perp is drunk. Like acting like a knob. I did not suggest that being drunk is an absolute defence for everything; 3. The latter i.e. some behavior, while ostensibly illegal, I would not report to the police because it's a waste of my time, their time and the consequences for the perp can be disproportionate; 4. You're right, I can't be certain so over-egged it a bit saying 'certainly'. That said, I'd bet my house it wasn't. EDLove Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Tr? Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > The police? Really cella? There but for the > > grace of God go I (save perhaps waving my dick > > about but I very much doubt this was anything > more > > than a dumb, drunken reaction and certainly not > > anything sexual). > > Sorry, I find this response (and some others) > completely baffling. > > 1. You don't know that this man was drunk. > 2. Even if he had been drunk, why does that mean > that his behaviour is more acceptable/less worthy > of condemnation? > 3. Why shouldn't Cella report anti-social and > illegal behaviour to the police? Because you have > presumed that the man is drunk and believe that > drunken people should be less accountable? Or > because, in your opinion, this behaviour, whilst > still illegal, isn't THAT illegal? > 4. Why do you feel that displaying your genitalia > has to be sexual in order to be offensive and/or > breaking the law? How can you be so certain that > it wasn't sexual? > > I think it's quite easy to take a laissez faire > view on anti-social behaviour whilst living in a > part of the world that doesn't really have to see > it that often. If we were having to deal with > men/women p**sing (or worse) in public every day > or every week, I'm sure it wouldn't be quite so > easy to dismiss it. All it takes is a small group > of society to view this behaviour as acceptable > (perhaps because of this new rule that being drunk > is actually an excuse for fully grown adults) > before it becomes a norm. > > Perhaps we should take the same view in relation > to spitting, leaving chicken on the bus, dropping > litter etc?
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Out of order, yes. Police, no.
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The police? Really cella? There but for the grace of God go I (save perhaps waving my dick about but I very much doubt this was anything more than a dumb, drunken reaction and certainly not anything sexual).
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My Favourite Nursery - what's it like?
Tr? replied to Ruth.J.Davies's topic in The Family Room Discussion
My son went to MFN for two years until we moved out of ED and it was a bit of a come down when we visited the nurseries in our new area. None of them had the friendly, community feel of MFN and they all felt a bit 'commercial'. I'd wholeheartedly recommend it. I only need to look at the scrapbook of photos and memories they gave him when he left to know it's a good place. -
All business' gamble with their money to some extent. And if all investment banks rip off their shareholders and provide a lousy service to their customers, why do people continue to invest in them and use their services? Investment banks help raise finance for infrastructure and other projects that create jobs. They lend money to businesses to exist, expand and therefore keep and create jobs. They help foster stability and certainty by hedging business' exposure to interest and exchange rates and commodity prices, certainty that allows those business' to expand. They fcuk it up sometimes, there are some rogue individuals out there and the effects can be bad, very bad. But can we stop the 'all banks are bad and all bankers are greedy, rich wnakers' chant please? It's getting really lame. Zebedee Tring Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > bank (let's say an investment bank) does? > > > It gambles with its money, rips off its > shareholders by paying excessive bonuses and > provides lousy service to its customers. And if we > are really unlucky, the government has to bale > them out when they go bust.
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Lane Lover, looks like someone needs you to pointlessly state the bleeding obvious again. Come on bro!
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London Bridge - new platforms, same old problems
Tr? replied to BrandNewGuy's topic in General ED Issues / Gossip
Take the No.40 folks, it's a pleasant ride if you get on early enough. Maybe reserve the cattle prod for phone or book zombies.
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