We used to wake our little girl religiously between 10.30- 11.00 and gave her a bottle- that way I could make sure how much she really drank and spot difference between a hungry cry- or just a cry for attention! Maia slept in her own room since she was 7 weeks old and would NEVER wake up before 7 am- unless she was unwell! Now she is 21 months and sleeps from 7.30 - 8.15 every night, plus 2-2,5 after lunch! I am a believer in firm routines as our little darling is just the happiest child ever and loves her sleep- day and night! Yes, children are all different, but unless you help them find a rythm they will justt be grizzly and overtired with parents completely exhausted! I am convinced that with the right structure every child can sleep 12 hours without waking! I simply dodnt understand how parents cope with broken sleep for years! Good luck! Silke(mother of 1 and nanny and sleep trainer for over 15 years)