Thank you so much for all your input! I totally agree with Pickle that one has to take Gina with a pinch of salt or any baby book for that matter as not baby (or mum) is the same. Personally, I feel reassured that everything is going ok when I can see it written by someone else (or hear it for that matter), but that might just be my insecurities speaking. My little baba is going ok in her new routine and only had her lunch time sleep (12-1:30) and just went down for her sleep. I also just liked knowing what is going to happen during the day. When can we go to the playground etc. but of course some babies/mummies are just happy without a routine and that is tootally up to them I am just a sort of person that panics when I can't make lists and plans (I know...having a baby probably wasn't the way to go to have a super organised life). Well, thanks to all of you!!! :)-D:)-D