Hi, Thanks for your input everyone. Band of Bakers sounds interesting and I enjoy cooking. The choir however I'm sorry to say is certainly not very "me". I like going to the pub, enjoying a few drinks and more than anything just having a good time with people. My life for a young person is quite serious what with getting my flat, running the business and my partner being a fair bit older than myself, so I am trying to get away from the formal and "adult" things if that makes sense. Dont get me wrong I enjoy an older crowd most of the time, its great to talk about work and having decent convos, less trouble than tigers in Croydon haha but I have to admit, I miss the "younger scene". With my partner being older and him being a very sociable man with a wealth of friends, pretty much everyone ive socialised with in the past year have been in their thirties, give or take a few years and while I really get on with people of any age and made some great friends like that, ive realised now that what im lacking is a bit of immaturity and fun in my life that I missed out on at 18/ 19, now im 20 im young enough to still do it, without getting to 30 and doing it then. Id love to get into something constructive and active but for now I need to just at least meet a few new younger faces to build friendships with. I am a very loyal friend, which is probably what caused me problems in the past! I enjoy the serious stuff as well as having a good giggle about absolutely pointless topics! Me and my partner would both like to meet new faces in the area, individually and together so we can invite people other for nibbles and drinks, have more people to go out with other than the usual crowd as were trying to get away from the same old :-). Id love to organise a woman's only evening at a local bar or restaurant to get to know people. I know there are things I could join but it would also be nice to organise one as everyone will be in the same boat, rather than going along to something where the majority of people will be attending with company.