I live on the outskirts of East Dulwich with my wife and two kids; a three year old daughter, who turns 4 in August, and little boy who is one in May. We absolutely love living here. My daughter has just got a place at Goodrich. We have a few friends (although they seem to be leaving all the time!), and my sister in-law and her husband live nearby in Peckham, with their 4 year old daughter. The girls are like sisters. Our flat ? which we are lucky enough to own ? is small for the four of us, but we are very happy in it. We can't afford somewhere bigger right now, but that's no motivation to leave the area. We could go over the hill to Honor Oak, or anywhere outside of the East Dulwich bubble, and maybe afford a little more. Life is good though, and we don't need any more! The problem is transience. We want our children to have roots. We want them to make friends that will stick around, that they can grow up with, then venture off to uni, and come back home for regular reunions. We want them to have a group of friends that won't shrink as their parents pack up and leave town. We'd like some friends that will stay here too! I don't see teenagers hanging around. Or packs of kids riding their bikes or kicking a ball. Do kids do that anymore? Or is it just our area? Am I being naive and this is what it looks like in other towns, out of town? Or is it because they just aren't here? Does anyone on here have teenage kids? What have their experiences been? What do they do?! How do they feel? I'd ask some myself, it's just I never see them? Thanks guys :)