I too was the 20 something, single woman who ventured into East Dulwich after dark. Out on one of these 'single' nights out, I met quite a tall, blue eyed, sexy and funny man. After that moment my career went to pot, I've lost my hips to a child and another on the way, I drink coffee all day (in a take away cup - running around a park), I can't remember what it is like to get up and blow dry my hair or spend 20 minutes choosing what to wear for the day. I'm sure Mostly, I suspect I look like you on the way home from one of those pubs I don't venture into anymore. You're right.... I think we have taken over here but don't worry, the nights would still be yours and really it sounds like you don't venture out of bed on the weekends until way after 10am (steaming with jealousy) and my day is already half way through then. I'm sure we would never bump into one another. Just make sure you don't speak to men.