Minder that sounds like my son fast asleep whilst he's still on me but when i pull him away his mouth is still sucking away on thin air luckily he stays asleep tho :) bless him very cute) Referring to the earlier replies i always found that i didn't really get eye connection with my hv just the usual how are you ...how's baby.... ok see you in 2 weeks..... I also found her door always open with door stop and other mum's sitting right outside waiting to be seen (even if i did have a problem i would not say anything because i knew other people were listening..) I think i spoke more to the lovely nurse who weighed him beforehand, she always said baby looks great how are you, baby is a great weight, well done etc....not that i wanted praise but 1st baby i needed some reassurance....