This isn't one of those "it was much better then" rants (some things were and some weren't) - but I've lived in ED for over 20 years and the biggest change I see on the streets is this. Time and time again I've held doors open or stood aside with heavy shopping to let parents with buggies or small children on foot go by - for them not even to acknowledge the gesture, let alone say thank you. I know parenthood can be a challenge but really, it's hard to miss someone who's deliberately opened a door for you or who's waiting with a friendly smile for you to pass. Of course some people do say thanks but for the many who don't, if you can't manage a thank you or a smile, a nod at least would help restore faith in what I see described on this forum as the wonderful community spirit of East Dulwich. Glad to know you and your daughter are there, Caz6868!