Hi Everyone Thank you all for your comments. It's not just MY big dilemma, my Husband is not 100% sure either although he's obviously a bit more tempted than Iam. Problem with seeing grandparents is not the only one I fear but it's the biggest as I know they wouldn't be able to travel so far becouse of their age. There is lots of other things. I lived overseas few times before; first as a student(which was an adventure) and then for few years after we got married but it was only around Europe. I know how stressfull it is to move to a different contury far from people you love and friends, trying to build your life again and I'm worried that it will be so much worse this time as it's so far and there is not just two of us. The other thing is that I'm not sure how far would our money go. From the research I managed to do it looks that we'd be able to live similar life to what we have now (not even close to British Raj!) but is it really worth it? The only advantage I see in all this is my husband's work experience and for all of us to see a bit of Asia, but what if I'm too sceptic and he'll miss a great chance just becouse I'm afraid of that massive change??? I'm not sure what's more terrifying for me...