Hi and congratulations! My baby is now 14 weeks old and I think we're just cracking this baby lark! I was luck and my boyfirend split his paternity into two separate weeks with my mum staying the week in the middle and mum in law for the fourth week. this meant that after four weeks of having someone with me (and plenty of time for new nans to coo over baby) i'd tried all the new firsts with someone to help me - getting on the bus / train, breastfeeding at a cafe, shopping at the supermarket and going to to goose green NCT coffee mornings on Monday. By the time I was facing my first day alone I felt reasonably confident and quite keen to be independent! The bouncer in the shower room works for us and now baby is older I can actually leave the room for a couple of minutes to make a cup of tea and he doesn't notice as his toys are keeping his attention! Obviously what happens when he starts moving is another story... Good luck!