I do apologise guys from previous post. I had my toddler crying. Yes I would like to say that I didn't have a maternity nurse on my first baby, I was lucky to have my Sister coming over from Canada to help me out with my baby. Now Francesca is 6 years old and hates me. I don't know why, I can't think of anything I have done to upset her, or make her especially upset or jelous, but for the last week she done her best to annoy and enrange me, and when Jh walks through the door in the evening, she rushes over to him for a cuddle and drags him off to play in the lounge. After I've tried to please her all day! At bedtime she pushes me away and says no, Daddy read stories! and I can't get near her. It's really nasty, and I am trying to keep cool about it and not show her that she can upset me this way,but it's getting to be a bit too much now.and the most annoying thing is that at night she only wants me to confort her when I want to sleep! I hope this is just a phase which will pass soon, because I really don't like her much at all at the moment, and I want my lovely Francesca back I miss her and I remember when she was a baby I was overwhelmed.