I found weaning a bit stressful. Mainly due to trying to ensure my little one had the recommended 600ml of milk a day when we had reached 3 meals per day. Also how much to give. What is the right portion size? For me, it felt like I was constantly giving her food or milk. I was loosely following the Annabel Karmel Second Stage weaning planners initially. That included the mid-morning, mid-afternoon and bedtime milk. It felt like it was food or milk nearly every 2 hours. I was also breastfeeding once a day so never sure how much milk that was. I was also dealing with a lot of sicking up which may have been due to an immature digestive system or that my daughter liked to be on her tummy all the time, even straight after meals. I am not certain from your original if you are concerned about whether your daughter is getting adequate milk amounts or just concerned that she is rejecting meals/milk feeds at certain points during the day. My Health Visitor suggested that I try to leave 3 hours between meals/milk. She also suggested giving the solids and topping up with milk which I tried at lunchtimes for a short while. I was giving 120ml 30 minutes after a vege puree, yoghurt and fruit. I no longer do this as I tweaked things after a while as the sicking up ceased. Like you there was a lot of adjusting of meal sizes and milk volumes to reach a happy medium. To this day we still don?t get in the recommended 600ml per day but my HV said it is just a guide. I use dairy alternatives to get as close as possible ? natural yoghurt with fresh fruit puree at lunch and tea, some cheese every day etc etc. You asked for timings so here is our typical day from about 8 months: 0730 breastfeed (replaced by 150-180ml at 9 months) 0900 cereal and fruit with 60ml milk 1200 vege puree, babybel cheese, yoghurt and fruit 1500/1530 150ml bottle 1800 tea ? always include protein 1915 150ml bottle I did a lot of online research about daily meal/feed routines as posted by other mums and there are so many variations. The above is what is now working for us based on our waking and bedtimes.