Feeling the same! After applying to the only schools in our area that matched the criteria (mixed, non-denominational) my daughter was offered a place at an all-girls school. It is our closest one, but it is simply not an option. Dreading the appeal process but will take it as far as I can - and think ultimately will refuse to send her to the allocated school (don't know what the consequences of that would be but hope not to have to find out!) The system is deeply flawed and ; at once giving you a 'choice' and denying you any real 'choice'. I feel your pain!