I started with a boy and was quite nervous when I found out I was having a girl because I'm not a girly girl and wasn't sure how I would deal with ribbons in her hair etc. While still pregnant I went shopping for her, just to get her a couple of bits and I found myself getting more and more into having a girl after walking around looking at all the clothes. Maybe it will work for you to as you look around all the gorgeous little boys outfits, pirates and dragons, racing cars and trains.... so cute!!! Lots of little "I'm a tough little dude" kit out there which will make you want to eat him up! Enjoy! I've loved having one of each, especially as they get older and their differences become more apparent.