Strawbs Firstly - congratulations on the new arrival!! Re the sleeping, don't worry, he is very new and the his world has suddenly become very big. He was used to the warmth, comfort and secure surroundings of your womb. He just wants lots of cuddles and to be near you, or your partner. My son was the same. When he was born (he is now two years old) I would swear he was asleep, put him down and he would wake up immediately, other times he would remain asleep - but there seemed no rhyme or reason. He is so new, each day will be different. Enjoy the time he sleeps on you but keep trying to put him down, when he's asleep. But really, don't rush things. Plenty of time for sleep training in a few weeks, months or when you are ready. Just so you know, my two year old is now a great sleeper and could self-soothe by around four months (if I am remembering so far back!). Just one other point, if you have a group like NCT, that will be useful support and they will be going through the same as you at around the same time. Only one caveat is don't measure yourself or your son too closely against others as all babies differ. Great example is that we had one baby in our NCT (out of 6) who slept ALL the time and it made the rest of us feel very inadequate at times but it was just him- he was just a sleeper, and still is. Congrats again and relax and enjoy. X