Thanks for all your views on this one. I have alot in common with the other mum, However I have told her directly not to sswear in front of my 2.5 year old but no change. There have been some other factors in our friendship that have made me question it.I appreciate none of us are perfect!! Most people i kmow who have sworn in front of my daughter immediately apologies etc which I've got no prob with we all have our moments. good point dulwich girl thanks for your post, I agree its not something I want to do telling an adult how to behave.