We're about 80 minutes, if you include dinner - probably about 50 if you don't. (He's 2 1/2) Dinner, silly game getting ready for shower, shower/bath, towelly cuddles, getting dressed, stories, nighttime. It can be as short as about a half hour, depending how tired he is. Similar to others, it's an important bit of our day, so we're happy for it to take as long as it takes - if it works for you guys, then it's not a problem. In fact, it tends to work the opposite. The nights we try and make it quicker, it tends to take longer for the boy to settle, with a couple of appearances in the living room, etc.