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I had no idea about the changes until I read this thread though I've certainly noticed the negative effects this past week - slower journeys and overcrowding during rush hour. Many people rely on the frequency of the number 12 to get to to Peckham Rye to use the overground trains. I'm sure some people may say leave earlier to allow for the delays, though I know there are many parents who can't when you have to drop off to school or nursery in the mornings. Fine if you're lucky and have an understanding boss and flexible working though for those who don't it can be very stressful. Same goes for the journey home when many people will be rushing to make pick up on time.

The chassis has been damaged with one of the wheels slightly unaligned. Does anyone know of any local repair centres? Many thanks!

Nannies are great but generally the most expensive option. First Steps Montessori was a fab nursery for my first, they generally take little ones from 15/18 months, though my one didn't join until age 3. Childminders also good option. I hear YeeHaa on Friern Road v good. They're childminders but have staff so nice balance between childminder/ home environment and nursery for stimulation/socialising with other children.

It's not a villa but a great family hotel. Princess Yaiza. Kids love it as do parents. Check out reviews online.

Are you still looking for baby clothes? I have a big bag ready to go to a good home. Thanks. Please text me on 07725 052482 if you want them. Thanks.

Hi James, Can I please ask if you checked out the wall on a Friern Road? Thanks, Bernie

I've recently been in contact with Nicola because of the 4 month sleep regression. After suffering years of bad sleep with my first child I decided to take action this time. I too was concerned about doing this before 6 months. I chose to go ahead with one of the gentle forms of sleep training called gradual withdrawal. It does take longer, though fine with me as I wouldn't want to leave my baby alone crying. It's now night 11 and we've definitely made progress but still have a way to go. Must confess I haven't stuck to the programme at times as it's pretty hard not to cave in at 4/5am after being awake for hours listening to baby crying. Nicola has offered great support along the way. I'm hoping we will be in an even better place in a week or so. Good luck.

I would like to join but am busy then. Will hopefully meet at the school gates.

I really feel for you guys. My first born suffered intense bouts of crying in the evening and generally seemed unsettled / grumpy. We had a big turnaround at 9/10 weeks when she turned into the most delightful happy baby. My point is just that these difficult early days don't indicate the nature/personality of your child or reflect your own parenting skills. Glad you've discovered Dr Karp as it seems to be offering some relief. He does say crying peaks at 6 weeks. If you did want any further support along these lines a lady called Viv Rogan (baby calmer) does sessions with parents and is certified to offer Happiest Baby sessions in the UK. It may be worth a try, if there are any elements of the techniques you feel you could do with having hands on help with. Plus she has a maternity background and also works as a Doula, so could offer some useful support. I also found sessions with the cranial osteopath helped too.

Gutted I missed the last meet, we were away for a couple of days. Hopefully make the next one if you're happy to share details again. Thanks.

Can recommend Al Qasr and Atlantis. Both great for kids.

Am I too late to join. I gave birth to my 2nd early July and would love to meet other mums. Thanks.

Hi I gave birth to my daughter early July and didn't attend any of he meets whilst pregnant. I'd like to join the group if it's not too late. Many thanks

Thanks everyone for the helpful advice.

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A pigeon with a broken wing has been in my front garden flower bed for most of the day. Does anyone have advice on the best thing to do? He seems ok now though I hate to see him stuck there. Thanks.

Kate Middleton the first person to squeeze into Diana's ring since Dodi al Fayed..............::o

Kate Middleton the first person to squeezew into Diana's ring since Dodi al Fayed..............::o

Hello, I held my girl's christening party at Dulwich Wood House. All guests said food was great (fusion buffet) I didn't quite manage to eat much myself, unfortunately. The staff were great - v attentive. The bar can get busy so we pre-bought drinks which were left out on a table for people to help themselves. We used the conservatory/decking area which is semi enclosed and has a retractable roof. The weather was absolutely awful so the roof stayed on and we eventually moved the whole thing inside. The garden is great for children to have a run around and the conservatory area has a lovely soft floor ideal for toddlers. It's worth a visit to check out and discuss your requirements.

Hello, This is a message to all local mums and dads. Daddy and I would really like to get out a bit more and need to find a regular local babysitter to look after our 8 month old baby girl the odd evening. I don't feel particularly comfortable using strangers from agencies etc and would feel much more at ease booking someone who comes with a good recommendation from local parents. The sitter would ideally be someone who works with young children during the day, though this isn't absolutely necessary. Please let me now if you can help. Many thanks.

I just travelled with my car seat and checked it in with my luggage with no special wrapping. It came back in good condition and was loaded separately and classed as a fragile item.

Check out a book called 'The No Cry Sleep Solution' it's full of lots of tips for tackling a range of different sleep issues. It's a lovely book that helps you realise that babies aren't all supposed to sleep for 12 hours without waking up and that there are other methods that should be considered before resorting to controlled crying. Good luck.

Not sure where you're planning to fly longhaul but Virgin Atlantic are pretty good at looking after people travelling with babies. I work for VAA and I do believe that our cabin crew would really go out of their way to help you. There's also a special assitance line you can call to talk through all your concerns re pushchairs, bassinets etc. As I understand Bassinets are always first come first served, so I would recommend that you arrive early at check in. Again, ask special assitance for advice. If you don't fly with VAA then I'm sure most other airlines have a similar service. I'm also about to fly to South Africa soon with my four month old just the two of us, so all the responses above have been pretty helpful for me too. Bx