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The Donmar releases day seats on the day but often these are standing places at the back of the circle (the circle is only 2 rows deep so that's not as bad as it sounds). You could queue for these but - be warned - the queue often starts early if the play is popular. Even as a Donmar member I struggled to get tickets for this play - I got my 2 member's seats but not for the day I wanted. Really sorry Mick but I wouldn't rush to the secondary market if I were you as it is full of sharks. There is a guy who I bought two tickets from for Streetcar last year after I gave mine to a friend (aren't I nice) and they were pretty good seats at an OKish price. I can dig out his details for you. I'm sure he's connected to the venue in some way and could get fired but needs must I suppose. BTW - the really big draw for me for this play isn't Jude Law but the truly fabulous and breathtaking Ruth Wilson. Does it have to be 3rd Sept? If I can think of a way to help I'll PM you. Take care. Px

Bunch of cynics. Glastonbury could turn interesting this year if the Bono tax avoidance demonstration takes place during the U2 set as planned. I do hope so. I shall be anxiously awaiting the You Tube footage of the big inflatable wad of cash that's allegedly going to be bouncing around the mosh pit.

RosieH Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > No no Mockney, I expect better from you. > Shakespeare put those words in the mouth of > Polonius who was a lot of an idiot, wrong-headed > and stabbed for his trouble. > > As for lending, well I have a few DVDs out there > with forumites that are overdue. I'll be imposing > fines... > > My take on it is pretty simple - lend nothing you > can't afford to lose. Hey Rosie H Your box is full so I can't PM you. How the devil are you? I still have your DVDs. Will happily pay any fine you impose - especially if it's alcohol based. Unfortunately your stuff is now in storage for the duration of my home refurbishment. I've moved out of my house and I'm renting until around September-ish. It would be lovely to see you. Pxxx

Who knew there were so many self-righteous people in East Dulwich? Such a load of sanctimonious twaddle. Alarmingly, probably a sign of things to come when she pops her clogs.

I second the Amanda @ Push recommendation.

Cyclists on pavements huh? Super topic. Anyone got any recent news about Waitrose opening in East Dulwich?

Nothing wrong with a cardboard coffin. I don't see the point in spending any more. I'd have mine painted to look really pretty though.

Ooh you actually made me look then Jah. It's only a silly old car. One of my ex-boyfriends had a Ferrari (it was the 80s - of course). Stupid car. Impossible to get out of without flashing your pants and you couldn't take it to Sainsbury's for the weekly shop because you could only squeeze one carrier bag into the tiny boot. And the worst thing of all - it SCREAMS "look at me". Yuk. I died a thousand deaths in that car. Hated it.

Well done you. I think you're fabulous! Here is my two penneth worth: 1. Enjoy the process 2. Get your kit off and take a long look in the mirror. Whatever your shape you are beautiful. Learn how to dress the shape that you have. It works for me and these days it's rare for me to make an expensive mistake. There are two particular designers that I return to season after season because they dress my shape and, therefore, they make me look good. There are numerous designers that make beautiful clothes - for 6ft size 8 models - but that's not my shape - so I pass on those designers. I'm never going to be 6ft or size 8 (thank God). 3. Take a long look in your underwear drawer. Do your bras fit you properly? If you're well endowed go to either Bravissimo or Rigby & Peller and get properly fitted. Otherwise, it does not matter how much money you chuck at a new wardrobe - if your underwear does not fit you properly then you won't look good. 4. Get yourself a good seamstress. Most of us are not a standard size and for clothes to really look good they need a nip here and a tuck there. 5. Buying jeans is a minefield (and very depressing). As others have said, try Liberty or Selfridges. Invest some money in a good pair. They will cost ??? but you'll get plenty of wear. Both these shops have jean "gurus" whose very raison d'etre is to get you into your ideal pair. If you simply haven't got the budget for Selfridges and Liberty then go to one of the bigger Gap Stores (Oxford St, High St Ken?) and ask to speak to the "jeans expert". Expect to try on about 20 pairs (I'm not kidding). If you don't find what you want then walk out. * * Incidentally, I'm yet to meet the woman who looks good in cargos so, please, I beg you, just don't. 6. Black trousers. Wardrobe cornerstone. Very important purchase. Throw some time at them. Be prepared to try on lots and lots and lots and don't rush into a purchase. If money is no object whatsoever then go for Maria Grachvogel magic pants (ouch ????). http://www.mariagrachvogel.com/shop/clothing/trousers_and_magic_pants/ If you can't afford them then go to Sloan Street and try a pair on anyway (cheeky, yes, but it will help you set the benchmark). It's only by constantly trying things on that you'll be able to edit what works for you. 7. High heels. I'm a 4 inch Louboutan girl so you can see that we're not singing from the same hymn sheet. What about a wedge? They'll give you some height and are easy peasy to walk in. Check out some of the new season wedges when you're at the shops. 8. Cardigans. I love them and I live in them and I won't have a bad word said so take it all back. Think sex kitten, not grandma. Behold, for I give you the sublime Wheels & Dollbaby: http://www.wheelsanddollbaby.com/#/online-shop/knitwear You can buy from the website and it gets shipped in from Australia, or you shop a limited range at: http://www.asos.com/Women/A-To-Z-Of-Brands/Wheels-Dollbaby/Cat/pgecategory.aspx?cid=2900&r=2 I have short arms so the Wheels & Dollbaby three quarter length sleeves are a Godsend. I have lots of W&D cardigans and I'm ALWAYS asked where I got them. They are very sexy, good quality, and will last. I'm not ready to throw in my lot with something beige from M&S just yet. 9. If you want something for a special occasion then I cannot recommend these people highly enough: http://www.zeleb.co.uk/eveningdresses.php It goes back to what I was saying about things being tailor made. Sometimes I see women on a night out in a special dress and I watch them pulling the bodice up and hitching the hem down. That's not attractive. The most attractive woman in the room (in my opinion) is usually the most confident woman in the room. When you're wearing something that fits you like a glove on a special night out then you will have that extra boost of confidence. 10. Beware of looking at too many magazines. Trends are not important. More important to try clothes and get to know and love your own shape. The very best of luck to you. I'm sure you'll be turning heads in East Dulwich any day now.

East Dulwich suits me fine. Roll on global warming a bit though.

Oh come now Katie Numbers, raise your game a little. I want one of these babies http://www.net-a-porter.com/product/104776

I would keep quiet and do nothing and it would eat me up for the next few days and I would end up being unable to sleep and crying for the child and for myself for being so inadequate. Those of you who are more effective have my admiration.

Oops - yes I guess it was Jah

Mona Mona - Billy Idol

I saw him out and about last week with the beautiful Camille. Proud as punch he was. Didn't look like he was getting his full 8 hours though.

Hard Rain - Dylan

Does anyone want to see Frankenstein at the National? It's completely sold out for the run. I accidentally overbooked so I have extra tickets for Saturday 23rd and Saturday 30th April. The NT's website crashed and my bookings appeared not to go through (but they did go through) - so I booked again. Now I have double bookings for both dates. I can return the tickets and get a refund so from my point of view it's no biggie. I'm just asking on here first in case anyone missed out and wants the tickets.

Happy St Pat's to all. I'm off to eat a celebratory potato for lunch. Px

I would really love to see Dolly - I think she's a real star - but I don't think I would spend ?75. She's due to announce a second date at the O2 (the Thursday) so if you do commit to paying that much then hold out for the second date rather than taking what's left of the first date (probably level 4 only). I'm not sure what she's like live but I have Jolene on my ipod and that sounds pretty dam good. If you want a cheaper night out I would recommend the Fleet Foxes at Hammersmith in May - brand new album.

Hugs GG

Take care of youself ????. I understand. I'm already history for the same reasons as you give. Before you go though, could you let me know if this is any good: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Every-Hand-Revealed-Gus-Hansen/dp/0818407271 So long and thanks for all the posts. Pxxx

Oh LadyM you don't have THAT much time. Get off the forum and get on with it. Have a fabulous Christmas. Pxx

Big hugs to you too LM. What are you even doing here? Aren't you flying off somewhere warmer?

Oh dear Ladyruskin I see you went to Oxford Street; well no wonder you're down in the dumps. I'm also sorry that your homemade gifts were met with scorn - that's not the Christmas spirit. I would concur with LadyM - all I want for Christmas is a hug really. I don't think grown ups should expect to receive big gestures. Most children that I know get too much for Christmas - everything overdone. There's no need to be spending too much money. Best plan early next year. It's done now for this year though so get yourself a large drink of something and congratulate yourself for getting through pre-Christmas Oxford Street. A very good friend of mine works in Selfridges - he hates Christmas!

Sorry Ladyruskin but I'm not feeling any pressure at all to buy anything. Just as well because I'm not spending. Spending too much/eating too much at Christmas (or any other times of the year) are a huge turn off for me. Christmas is what it is and you can't change it. The only thing you can change is your own behaviour. I suggest you avoid whatever it is that's triggering your loss of Christmas spirit because there's joy to be had too and it sounds like you're missing out.