NickT

Seabag there is a very good carpet shop in Beckenham, we just had our stairs done in a nice stripey number. But there's a good one on Lordship Lane or has it gone?

Hello, I'm Alice's partner. I was in East Dulwich for 15 years before moving to Beckenham, lived in Silvester Road and loved it. We moved in Jan 2015 mainly to have a bit more space indoors and out, it's leafy and green with lots of parks including Beckenham Place Park which is bigger than Greenwich Park. It is certainly already changing with some nice new eateries opened up in the last year. I think there are quite a lot of families moving here from ED, Balham and Tooting for the schools, parks and more house for your money. I had many good times in East Dulwich, great neighbours, got into all sorts of trouble up and down Lordship Lane over the years and the ED forum was a fabulous community resource that I really missed when I moved away which is why we decided to create something similar. I hope we can make it the success that the ED forum became.

Yeah I did miss the forum....so I started beckenhamforum.com which I'm launching soon. It is more suburban than ED for sure and I would say that it's less sophisticated but its also a lot less middle class snobby. I think my enjoyment of ED declined over the 15 years I lived there as it became more and more gentrified. In the last year I was in ED I always had the feeling I couldn't afford to live there, just paying more than I needed to for every meal out, drink in a bar or grocery shop. I'm sure Beckenham will change soon as well, there are already signs of it....especially with wankers like me moving in, putting white picket fences up and painting the front door with Farrow and Ball...writings on the wall ;-)

I was in ED, Silvester Rd, for 15 years, sold in January 2015 and moved to Beckenham. Now living in a big semi detached 3 bed home with beautiful 155ft garden. Was really unsure about leaving ED but have really enjoyed my first year in Becks. It has loads of lovely parks, three close to me and one right opposite with 8 new tennis courts, I basically garden and play tennis when I'm not working now. I just find it more relaxed here, more space and no mortgage after the move. Stations go into London Bridge, Charring Cross and Victoria. We have Waitroes, Sainsbury's and M&S food hall as well. Bromley is 10 mins by car and has really great shopping including Apple store and we have the best swimming pool in the country apparently and an Odeon cinema. Haven't really thought much about ED since moving.

PC World on Old Kent rd have taken my old stuff for recycling, I think those stores are obliged to now.

When I was buying a house in East Dulwich I chose a quiet street away from the shops so I could park outside and not be disturbed by noise. The pubs and bars, traffic and parking of Lordship Lane have always been there.

Yes silvester rd is out too

I'm in Silvester rd! heard the huge bang and saw the lightening strike as I was chatting on the phone to my mum and staring vacantly out the window (we were about an hour and 45 mins in), now my broadband router and modem are fried, won't even power up anymore...I'm having to post this tethered to my mobile.

The cheapest escorts/prostitutes charge ?80 hr servicing maybe 4 punters a day and working 4 days a week which is ?5120 a month and that's a very conservative estimate, most charge ?150/hr and are busier and working more days. I think many choose it over bar work or cleaning etc for obvious reasons. It's very unusual for girls to work the streets now in the UK...the internet has made it completely unnecessary. At the moment there is a huge influx of Romainian girls.

The Science Museum do great gifts for boys, solar powered vehicles etc that are also educational. http://www.sciencemuseumshop.co.uk/children

I don't know if it's connected but the CID visited me on Saturday because I have a CCTV camera outside the house, we spent 2hrs going through footage from Friday night around 11pm. Apparently a man was chased down the road by several others and a firearm was suspected to be involved, you can see a dog handler searching for the gun an hour or so afterwards. They took away some footage. I don't live on the Lane though.

Well my road was resurfaced last week for the first time since I've lived here, 14 years. It needed it and they made a great job of it with minimum inconvenience. I'm happy they found the money wherever it came from.

My recycling hasn't been collected for over two weeks now, not sure why.

I live at the rear of the Police Station and do welcome the redevelopment of the site, I would contest vigorously any proposal that didn't include off street parking though.

purplehaze I can see that my rape comparison might offend for which I apologise but I do fail to see how being attacked or stollen from or swindled can be ones own fault. There's another thread on the forum about a guy who was mugged at knife point on Peckham Rye last night, you could say he was stupid to cross the park in the dark but I maintain it is the guy with the knife who was wrong.

I have the one at the top of this page: http://www.coomatec.com/DVRCam_AVOUT/features Here it is on amazon at ?30.99 http://www.amazon.co.uk/Coomatec-Vision-Recorder-Real-Time-Surveillance/dp/B00DIXG3PC/ref=sr_1_fkmr1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1390320212&sr=8-1-fkmr1&keywords=coomatec+s808 Hope that link works...didn't have much luck last time.

This is funny because last week I answered an Ad on the forum for a Juicer, I went to collect it with my girlfriend, we knocked on the door and the guy took a minute to answer, we went in and within seconds there was another knock at the door and it was plain clothes police...they thought we were this couple, apparently they've been targeting older people in the area. The Juicer is fantastic ;-)

Oh I see, it's my fault..are you one of those people that think it's a girls fault if she gets raped because she wore a short dress etc. I thought you were just a media invention but you actually exist! Not a very promising 1st day on the forum James. jamescpr90 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > No mate , just behave a bit more resposibly next > time . The local authority provides an excellent > service.

It's still in my front garden, why, do you want it? jamescpr90 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Interesting info about the camera. What did you do > with your rubbish that was dumped by the > unlicensed collecter that you paid and used?

Rolo1 the camera records continuously and stores several days at a time. It requires mains power, I drilled a hole through the upstairs window frame to accommodate the power cable. It also has a monitor cable for a small monitor for live viewing but I don't use this facility. The camera has Infra red lights for night vision which actually appear red after dark and provides perfectly viewable footage.

It records to a mini sd memory card so has to be mounted high up so it can't be tampered with. It produces small .AVI files which open without any software on PC's and Macs I believe. It is a basic one but pretty effective.

No dimples, he didn't pick up those missed bits but I went back in and was working for a while before I checked, that's what made me check round the corner and discover the rest of it. The CCTV camera I use is very cheap indeed but I've been impressed with the results, it's very simillar in spec and look to this one > http://www.amazon.co.uk/SUNLUXY?-Waterproof-Outdoor-Surveillance-Security/dp/B00B22RIY6/ref=sr_1_13?ie=UTF8&qid=1390069374&sr=8-13&keywords=cctv+camera singalto I will do some recruiting when I have a free evening, might even get to know all the neighbours!

This afternoon a guy rang my bell offering to remove some rubbish from my front garden for a couple of quid, he said he was clearing stuff from up the road. I paid him ?2.50 to take some cardboard as I was keen to get rid of it before it got soaked and soggy etc. Turns out he just dumped it on the street around the corner. Not sure what he would have done if I hadn't been in when he rang, maybe the rubbish thing was just a charade when I turned out to be in. Anyway here's a still from my CCTV and a link to the video https://www.dropbox.com/s/m7hbujzvpmqg2mr/cctv.mov The most traumatic part of the whole incident was seeing my developing bald spot from an elevated camera position ;-) On a related note I have registered a neighbourhood watch scheme in Silvester Rd, currently I'm the only lonely member so if you live in the street, do sign up here > http://www.ourwatch.org.uk

We went to the 70's fancy dress night at the house of Tippler last NYE and it was great fun, didn't leave til the sun was coming up, they had a good band on. I understand something similar is planned this NYE but not sure if there's a theme. We pretty much went though the entire cocktail menu. I'm going with my girlfriend and a couple of friends again this year.

I have a big powerful angle grinder which you can take and use, I've removed wheel clamps with it before now, no problem, like a knife through butter. You will need to take an extension cable and borrow the use of a socket though or a generator as it's a mains one. Message me if you'd like to borrow it. Nick.