iaineasy

okay cool thanks for that.

Hi Admin would it be useful to have a delete thread button for threads you start as for instance, if your selling something and its sold or you start a thread that you may regret or want to end because it has given you the information you need, then why leave it there? just a thought it would certainly remove a lot of excess baggage. Is that not an easy thing for you to write into the code? hugs easy.

I look forward to that day, I havent been reported to the park keeper since i bunked off school and got caught smoking behind his shed.hahaha:)) ps. I am just playing devils advocate I won't be picking flowers but someone had to get the debate going again >:D<

Louisa,I almost feel like picking them just to get you going, but to be honest I will wait till my daughter is 3 and let her do it if it gives her pleasure, because no matter what you think the smile on her face will be seconded only in the amount of pleasure i get from the lemon sucking scowl on yours. If a kid picks a daffodil to give to mummy because she loves her it will not be the end of the world, and mummy accepting that flower with a glow of pride and happiness will not be the end of the world either, people getting uptight and mouldy about these little acts of love just might or maybe climate change will and ther wont be anymore daffodils for you to get so stressed about. hugs.x

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yeah out with it name and shame!!

no it was good and proper as far as I am concerned people should not be harrassed.

name and shame!!

(tu) I like a good freindly ruck!

The op is about a working mans club not a cafe.

The OP is talking about the Turks and associated Johnny Mehmets who peddle hash from their cafe. I've been buying from them for years and they do the best weight in south London. ---------------------------------------- since when is a cafe a working mans club? And I am sure the cafe owners would love to meet you after giving them unwanted or called for publicity. you could be Rolling Deep in shit soon I would have thought.watch your fingers.

Thanks for that I am sure the OP loves having his thread hijacked by people having personal digs at interested parties. nice work.

I have a hankering to get back into doing some tunage maybe start with a little lounge jam and do some recording, dont havre much time for gigs as I have a new nipper but it would be good to have a twangle and make some noise.

BBW is back and starting a postal forum by the looks of it!!

If the working man just fancies a spliff should he; a) goto a street dealer where he may contribute to the decline of an area and lose his wallet in the process of aquiring said medical remedy for aches and pains? b) GO TO PRISON for not being an alcoholic and enjoying the herb rather than the evil drink? c) go to his local working mans club where behind closed doors he can discreetly see a freindly face who may have a spare bag and aqquire it causing offence to no one? d) lobby the goverment to legislate soft drugs to prevent him being criminalised for what is an essentially harmless past time when engaged in sensibly in the comfort of his own home? e) get a weekend flight to amsterdam? what I want to know is how does the OP knows this is going on behind closed doors, and if he is a member and doesn't like it should he not just cancel his membership? I don't take drugs but if I did I would know where to go now so thanks for that Pearson what a handy post. :)-D

You are officially a Yummy Mummy ------------------------ you can call me mandy at weekends!

After the rubbish thread I read before about Dulwich mums and the bugaboo, and in the interest of sexual equality I am warning you all now I have a bugaboo ghecko and I dont know how to use it. I will be taking out everyone on that thread before that was nasty about people with prams as I don't have a license for this thing (even though it cost more than my first car) nor do I have insurance or for that matter much of a concience, or two of the fingers on my left hand come to think of it,after trying to assemble it for the first time.So watch out Dulwich we are coming to cafe nero soon!!>:D< Thanks to Carol for providing me with this instrument of sufferring which I intend to use with rutheless inefficiency. have a happy weekend hugs Iain.xx

sorry your machine died molly what a drag!!

Anna has been trying the pump which pickle kindly lent us but how much should you be able to get out in one go on average? it took her 20 mmins to get one ounze (out of one boob) or just a little more is that okay it seems a lot of work for a little milk?

good luck anna_r. hugs

haha thats funny, we had to take Elsabel to kings because of jaundice too but they said it was okay and as Annas milk came in it has gone of its own accord. There's so much to learn about all this stuff but thats the fun of it.

Thanks Polly for sticking up for us and molly for your brilliant powers of diplomacy The fact of the matter is that when I first read fuschias post I was a tad miffed as it seemed to imply that we are bound to fail if we try mixed feeding, which is an underminig feeling for 2 people with there first baby who just want to do whats best for our little Angel,however luckily I have thicker skin than Annas poor nipples and no lasting offence has been taken, I will accept all points of veiw as valid because we have no experience and by starting this thread I guessed there would be lots of differring exeriences to draw from, and like anything you just have to glean what feels right from all the positions, it does seem to be an emotive subject though and very a interesting debate for someone who's nipples have hair on like mine.

Well I have to say that Jill the consultant came today and lifted a massive weight off our shoulders, she spent a couple of hours with Anna and really seemed to make a difference. I would thouroghly reccomend her if anyone needs her number please send me a PM and I will be happy to pass it on. Thanks pickle for putting us in touch hope fully the things she told us will iron out the problems but we shall have to wait and see, how exciting!! Its the little things that you lovely forumites do to help and support each other that can make a very big difference to how people feel and for that,I for one am very greatful indeed. heart felt thanks and extra special hugs to you all.xxx

jonathan livingstone seagull, was and still is one of my all time faves at that age and also The silver sword if your son is a good reader at 10!! hugs

Anna and I have been really touched by all the kind words and great advice, it's really nice to know people are routing for us and that we are not the only ones having this difficult start,Elsabel slept through till 5 am this morning giving us both a good sleep and the world seems a nicer place this morning. We have started to try and get Elsa into some kind of routine as before all she would do is suck or cry but she seems to be responding to this and hope fully it should get easier from here on in. Maybe giving her one bottle of formula a day will give Anna a chance to rest the boob and I will get to feed our baby.:)) But will we need to get a pump? will doing that disrupt the boob of good fortune? we live and learn it seems.