Hello Mlteenie, I went to my friend's wedding, I was so pleased for her that she found her wonderful guy and on the day it was all about him so I said to myself I have to balance this out, then I did a Best Woman's speech, last minute, completely from the heart, She, Mary, has a lovely family so it was easy, actually it did not mattered what I said they were just happy that I said something loving. Look after the family, it is an emotional day for them,hopefully a happy day as well. I'm pleased that I made the speech, it is on a video somewhere, I might see it on their 10th anniversary. Good luck, Nuala